Do u ever do things together as a couple? Like date nights? Or if he ever has days off just hang out together etc? Maybe you need to reconnect that way.
I used to feel unappreciated being at home all day with the kids, despite working hard to find a job and get in as much mobile beauty as possible to keep my hand in until someone employs me. I still feel rather unfulfilled. After many a row, reaching breaking point (we've been together 12 years and married for 10) we started making time for each other. We go out every month and talk about things that don't involve work or the house. We share opinions on the world, gossip about celebs or the row the neighbours had or just silly things like road rage. We dream together, he wants to buy land and build his own house, I want to travel and see the world. They are not necessarily things we can do tomorrow but it's nice to just talk about who we are and what we like. It takes the pressure off and you get to appreciate each other for who you are. I think it's all about communication, you didn't mention if you had children or pets, we always try to make time to do things as a family too, he had a day off the other day so we took the kids and the dogs walking up the mountains. The housework didn't matter, what I do all day didn't matter because we were too busy enjoying the time together. He knows I believe life is for living not cleaning and worrying about bills and he has started to embrace that. Maybe try doing things as a team, get his butt off the sofa and do some things together x