punkybrewster
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Just curious...I'm a real shy person. I love doing nails. But I feel my personality is holding me back. I'm not very talkative. I've worked in shops with girls who did bad nails...IMO but they always kept customers because of their bubbly personalities. I"m nervous and awkward with people until I have known them for a long time.....It's strange but I get nervous when people watch me while I work .. my hands shake soo bad....to the point it's embarrassing. I think I scare the customers away cause I'm so quiet and nervous. So I have done nails off and on for several years because I can't seem to build up clientele. Should I just give up....I told my self that this year would be my last attempt...the year is almost over and I've made no improvements. :cry: I'm thinking about seeing a therapist for like social anxiety or something.
I've always been shy but its gotten extremely bad over the past three years. I got in an abusive relationship and I'm still trying to break it off with this guy...but I don't really have any family..and it's hard to just leave him alone cause he's all I've known for the past few years. He doesn't hit me, it's more so verbally abusive. He has pushed me away from the few good friends I had. And it has just pushed me further in my shell. Im embarrassed to be telling this because I'm not even a young girl. I'm a grown woman and for some reason can't walk away from this situation. I really have no one else to turn to at this point.
Can anyone give me any advice on the situation. How can I be more relaxed around clients.
And Yes, I know I need to get away from the guy...he is a big part of my issue.
I've always been shy but its gotten extremely bad over the past three years. I got in an abusive relationship and I'm still trying to break it off with this guy...but I don't really have any family..and it's hard to just leave him alone cause he's all I've known for the past few years. He doesn't hit me, it's more so verbally abusive. He has pushed me away from the few good friends I had. And it has just pushed me further in my shell. Im embarrassed to be telling this because I'm not even a young girl. I'm a grown woman and for some reason can't walk away from this situation. I really have no one else to turn to at this point.
Can anyone give me any advice on the situation. How can I be more relaxed around clients.
And Yes, I know I need to get away from the guy...he is a big part of my issue.