Ok so I guess a lot of comments regarding "insecure husbands/trust issues" are directed at my comment.
First of all the op asked for honest opinions and I gave mine, I however did not ask for anyone to judge my opinion or ask for anybody's opinion.
It's not about other halfs being "insecure or not trusting" , its more to do with "picking your battles" with your other half, what's the point of argueing with my other half over a hairdresser when there is loads of mobile hairdressers out there that produce fabulous work? If you chose to put your husband in the doghouse over it that's your choice.
With regards to plumbers,joiners builders etc, I personally arrange them when my other half is around for MY safety and. The safety of my kids. Again this is my opinion and my choice. Moving on I would never ever see a male gynaecologist , or a male midwife...sexist? I think not i just wouldn't want a man down in my private parts.
This does not effect me in my personal life or make me a bad person.