Don't take offence but maybe it's because people who have a lot of experience have seen more 'accidents'. It's not to say we all haven't done this stuff, but over the years I've learn not to play with chemicals.
There's no reason to mix bleach and tint together, which I think is the point people are trying to make. Yes I know some one showed you and it's worked for you so far. But trust me good quality products work without having to play dangerously.
And I can see the last comment is yet another person to recommend highlift tint as a toner with pastel! This is such a common subject on here, they are highlift tints because they are designed to give 'high' 'lift'.
Toners put a tone in when you have lightened correctly.
If everyone knew the chemical make up behind colours you would WANT to put a highlift over bleached hair.
