I use IBD also, first off, are you using thier Soak off Gel? or just regular file off gel? If you're using soak off, you should be using the IBD Gel Remover Soak to remove them. If you're using the traditional gels then, they are not removable by soaking in acetone; you should file them to the point that they get opaque/cloudy, this means the seal is broken from the natural nail; remove by sliding a pusher between the product and the natural nail, it should slide of easily, if not, keep filing.
As for removing every 3 - 4 weeks, this is unnessesary and will eventually lead to damaging the clients natural nail. To "re-balance" you should file the product thin at the cuticle and the free edge, not too thin, don't break the seal. Prep as usual for a fill, cleanse, bond the grow out, then apply white to the free edge to reset your new smile, clean your smile to be crisp with a clean brush and cure. I "freeze" cure (a quick 10 sec in the light) between nails to keep the smile crisp, this helps if your speed is a little slower applying white. After your smiles are reset or rebalanced you can continue with a fill as usual.
Good luck, and stop giving yourself so much work!:lol:
Also, ibd has a really good tutorial video on their site for thier product line. Check it out at
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