Molly B
Well-Known Member
Hi geeks
I'm having a hard time. I was with my boyfriend for 5 years. We met when he was 20 and I was 25. He's a lovely person and I love him deeply. We were best friends and had a great chemistry.
We have broken up because I now at age 30 would like to rent a place together and start to think of the future. All my friends are starting to marry and have babies and I would like to start thinking about that too.
My boyfriend did not want those things. He won't rent will only buy but has no savings so and is self employed in a new business so that is going to be a long time away.
I've given 5 years to him I don't think it's unreasonable for me to want to start thinking about the future and at least rent together.
I'm afraid of giving 5 more and for it still to have come to nothing.
I love him, I want him but I've called it off because of this. He understands why.
I thought I might meet someone who wants the same things.
But maybe I've made a mistake and won't meet anyone like him.
I would really love to hear your thoughts and advice caring geeks.xxx
I'm having a hard time. I was with my boyfriend for 5 years. We met when he was 20 and I was 25. He's a lovely person and I love him deeply. We were best friends and had a great chemistry.
We have broken up because I now at age 30 would like to rent a place together and start to think of the future. All my friends are starting to marry and have babies and I would like to start thinking about that too.
My boyfriend did not want those things. He won't rent will only buy but has no savings so and is self employed in a new business so that is going to be a long time away.
I've given 5 years to him I don't think it's unreasonable for me to want to start thinking about the future and at least rent together.
I'm afraid of giving 5 more and for it still to have come to nothing.
I love him, I want him but I've called it off because of this. He understands why.
I thought I might meet someone who wants the same things.
But maybe I've made a mistake and won't meet anyone like him.
I would really love to hear your thoughts and advice caring geeks.xxx