lila22
Well-Known Member
I don't no but I really thought I'd pee when I had to cough in the middle of it all!! Hate having them but we must! X
I've been asking for a smear test for ages yet to no avail have they agreed. Just because i'm under 25 which in my eyes is ridiculous when i know damn well somethin is wrong!! I always thought if you had a child you were meant to have them anyway.
Anyway, sorry to rant haha hope all goes well for you. Is it just a routine check?
I absolutely hate this rule! I ended up needing surgery that put my fertility at risk at the age of 26 because I was refused a smear test. I mean I don't mean to frighten you, I have a two year old son with another bub on the way, but the surgery could have maybe been avoided if they had just given me the smear test I requested at 23. Try and be persistent with them, I really get the frustration xx
I'm lucky I'm in Scotland and its 20, but I think they should lower it to 16 as that's when most young girls are sexually active now!!
The nurse said instead of every 3 years they are going to change it to every 5! I think that's a bit long between xx
I had my first one which was a post natal smear when I was 24, it was horrible and uncomfortable. I had my second last week and it was fine, it was a bit uncomfortable but over in seconds! The first time I was made to undress with the nurse turned around and the window didn't have any blinds on and she was a bit rough. My second time I was allowed to go behind the curtain and get comfortable, there were blinds and the nurse was so nice and calm and quick, she has restored my faith in smears now as I was dreading it beforehand after last time! Even though my first nurse was obviously experienced she wasn't very professional and didn't put me at ease, anyone could have walked in and saw me legs wide open so I was aware of this and uncomfortable. Also the waiting room is right outside and my husband said he could hear everything😱, the nurse saying "so this is your first smear" and "this might be a bit uncomfortable" I was mortified when he told me and even more so as I walked out of the room one of my clients was in the waiting room and she must have heard I was in there having a smear, and everyone else in there!!! They have music playing now
I thought that they had bought in a new rule that it's 24 now? I had mine at 24 last year. I agree though, I think it should be available at 18, how many lives must be put at risk for them to change it! Xx
I sprayed glitter on my fandangles instead of deodrant when I last went. Nurse said 'I see you got ready for it' :o
There's currently a petition to help lower it look for "Sophie's choice" on face book! Get it signed an shared !!
This poor girl pestered to have a smear, got refused and died of cervical cancer, hopefully the hard work her family are putting in will help prevent it happening agin x x
Im in australia, and as soon as you become sexually active you have to have one then its every 2 years after that. I had my first smear at 17
I absolutely hate this rule! I ended up needing surgery that put my fertility at risk at the age of 26 because I was refused a smear test. I mean I don't mean to frighten you, I have a two year old son with another bub on the way, but the surgery could have maybe been avoided if they had just given me the smear test I requested at 23. Try and be persistent with them, I really get the frustration xx
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