Leanned85
Well-Known Member
I cant believe that someone has just asked me to do acrylics on her 6 year old daughter!
I'm right to refuse aint i???
I'm right to refuse aint i???
I was put in a difficult position at a childrens pamper party.
The girl was 12 and her mum had asked for acrylic for her whilst I was there. Suddenly all the parents were agreeing and asking for their daughters......
They were quite young too about 12 / 13 and I was very uncomfortable but it was her birthday party, so I compromised.
I did a little acylic colour overlay. They were extended (very tiny extensions) with forms so there was no glued tips. It was more for effect so they felt like they were having them rather than really having them...
I didnt buff and prep really as I was worried if they nails was totally stuck, children being children playing and messing, Id rather they lost the acrylic rather than the nail. Plus their nails were so tiny and fine!
As it happened they lasted that day and the next (probably longer if they had not messed so much whilst they were setting).
I felt very compromised so now am making it clear in my T&Cs for childrens pampering that I will not do acrylics on children.
Edited to add, though these children were 12 and get them done in town, there is no way that I would do proper acrylic nails, but would definitely not do them on a 6 year old!
Oh poor you, what an awkward situation to find yourself in, you didn't want to spoil the party and 'he who pays the piper calls the tune' etc but sounds like it was a great learn and putting it T&Cs was a wise move. Sadly there will always be places that will grab the money with little or no thought of the rights and wrongs. I just don't understand these mothers, I'm definately not prudish but I feel strongly that kids grow up too quick and some parents seem to encourage it, dressing up and make up is great fun but acrylics...crazy!
Are you suggesting that for little kids? Nail art yes, tips no way for me.How apart just sticking the French tips on and doing a bit of nail art at pampers parties. No worse than the kits they buy in boots. Call them party nails. Or clear tips and polish with a design?
Insurance doesn't cover it for a reason.
Another thing to consider: children's nails are very thin and bendy. No strength to them at all.
Should they bash one, it highly likely tear right off and hurt like a you-know-what.
(and you KNOW they'll bash one or two).
A couple of months ago for my daughters' combined b-day, a friend gave them 'press-ons' that were designed for children.
They came with two-sided sticky tape.
BOTH girls (8 & 10yrs of age) complained that they hurt when they bopped them, and when one tried to remove the nails, she complained some more.
They had to sit in the tub playing for a while with their hands in the water to get them off.
I realize this is a 'business' and personal opinions for the most part shouldn't enter into it.
But I do feel that we have a responsibility to set ourselves apart from the NSS, and take a stance. In addition to the "takes a village to raise a child".
There has to be a line drawn somewhere......
And the Insurance companies have already done it for us.
I think a lot of the problem is when parents still want them putting on their child when the risks have been explained, I just can't get my head around why you would do that.
Because they're priorities as parents is all screwed up. They're so concerned with being their child's best friend, and their child's appearance that they don't see the reason WHY their child shouldn't get certain treatments. It's a waste of breath explaining things to them because all they hear is "womp womp womp."
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