Andrea-Louise
Well-Known Member
I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and living together for 2 and half.
Had a few little ups and downs but got through them and are a lot happier and better in our relationship.
We share a computer (what are we thinking I know) But today I was looking through the picture album for nail pic's to post online, and I found a fair few photo's of him and his ex.
I know I shouldn't of "snooped" but I thought 'oh it's photo's of when he was younger'. Big mistake on my behalf and now I feel like a horrible person for seeing them and feel hurt and upset. I know it shouldn't get to me as he's with me now and everything.
But why would he keep them. We have spoke about ex's but not too much. We both we don't have feelings for any ex's but seeing these make me think other wise. Although he is a daft fool and forgot they where there probably.
I still don't understand why though, I don't have anything of my ex's got rid of it all not long after being with current boyfriend, didn't want to dwell on the past. But yet I'm doing that now.
Not sure what to do with myself now although its my fault.
Sorry for the long post just needed to vent.
Any of you lovely geeks been in a similar situation and what did you do?
Do any of you still have anything of or from your ex's? - as I don't get it!
Thanks for reading my mini essay xx
Had a few little ups and downs but got through them and are a lot happier and better in our relationship.
We share a computer (what are we thinking I know) But today I was looking through the picture album for nail pic's to post online, and I found a fair few photo's of him and his ex.
I know I shouldn't of "snooped" but I thought 'oh it's photo's of when he was younger'. Big mistake on my behalf and now I feel like a horrible person for seeing them and feel hurt and upset. I know it shouldn't get to me as he's with me now and everything.
But why would he keep them. We have spoke about ex's but not too much. We both we don't have feelings for any ex's but seeing these make me think other wise. Although he is a daft fool and forgot they where there probably.
I still don't understand why though, I don't have anything of my ex's got rid of it all not long after being with current boyfriend, didn't want to dwell on the past. But yet I'm doing that now.
Not sure what to do with myself now although its my fault.
Sorry for the long post just needed to vent.
Any of you lovely geeks been in a similar situation and what did you do?
Do any of you still have anything of or from your ex's? - as I don't get it!
Thanks for reading my mini essay xx