Beckih84
Active Member
Hey ya,
I have been experiencing problems lately with people either not bothering to tell me they arent coming, so im sitting round waiting, just not showiing up or saying they are ok to come and then contacting me within the hour before to say they cant make it. too be honest the reasons for not making it have been sometimes things like, im too tired etc but people dont seem to realise that its at my expense. it not only that , it was last night i had a lady booked (someone from work she is a friend of a friend) for 7.30. she text me at 6.30 to say im sorry im just leaving work so i cant make it. I live bout 15 mins from our work so it wouldnt have taken long to get to me. i did reply to say ok, and then about 30 mins later i had another message saying can i still come so i said yes and then 30 mins later i had another to say can we make it next week. i work full time and my time after work is valuable to me but others dont seem to see tht. is there anything i can do to try to stop this? i know it happens but lately seems alot. i love doing this now and dont want to stop but feel that my time is wasted alot.
any advice gratefully recieved
thanks
becki xx
I have been experiencing problems lately with people either not bothering to tell me they arent coming, so im sitting round waiting, just not showiing up or saying they are ok to come and then contacting me within the hour before to say they cant make it. too be honest the reasons for not making it have been sometimes things like, im too tired etc but people dont seem to realise that its at my expense. it not only that , it was last night i had a lady booked (someone from work she is a friend of a friend) for 7.30. she text me at 6.30 to say im sorry im just leaving work so i cant make it. I live bout 15 mins from our work so it wouldnt have taken long to get to me. i did reply to say ok, and then about 30 mins later i had another message saying can i still come so i said yes and then 30 mins later i had another to say can we make it next week. i work full time and my time after work is valuable to me but others dont seem to see tht. is there anything i can do to try to stop this? i know it happens but lately seems alot. i love doing this now and dont want to stop but feel that my time is wasted alot.
any advice gratefully recieved
thanks
becki xx