sweetcorn1
Well-Known Member
I have a cat who is nearly 2 and a very very sociable cat. Anyway just over a year ago she kept going missing for 24/48 hours and when I followed her she was going to a house up the road. So I put a tag on her basically saying could they not let her into their house as she has a loving happy home. I got a phone call back from a guy saying she goes to his house cos she is friends with his cat. Fine I don't mind that. But he never kicks her out, has started feeding her and even lets her sleep on his bed.
Now she is older she knows where her home is but still "visits" him. The thing that really upsets me is he rings me to tell me when my cat is ill or has fleas or is behaving strangly. He even told me to get her to the vets immediately as she was shaking her head and he was sure it was a brain dissorder (she had dirty/waxy ears that was all!).
The thing that has upset me is that this morning she came back and he has trimmed her nails and cleaned her nose (She is a bit of a mucky cat!!!)
Now I clean her nose everyday or everyother day and there was absolutely nothing wrong with her nails as she uses a scratching post and our doormat regularly.
I'm so upset cos she is my cat and I can do nothing to stop her going to his house or stop him letting her in.
Has anyone experienced similar to this and if so what did you do? Its driving me crazy.
Now she is older she knows where her home is but still "visits" him. The thing that really upsets me is he rings me to tell me when my cat is ill or has fleas or is behaving strangly. He even told me to get her to the vets immediately as she was shaking her head and he was sure it was a brain dissorder (she had dirty/waxy ears that was all!).
The thing that has upset me is that this morning she came back and he has trimmed her nails and cleaned her nose (She is a bit of a mucky cat!!!)
Now I clean her nose everyday or everyother day and there was absolutely nothing wrong with her nails as she uses a scratching post and our doormat regularly.
I'm so upset cos she is my cat and I can do nothing to stop her going to his house or stop him letting her in.
Has anyone experienced similar to this and if so what did you do? Its driving me crazy.