So, we are now, sadly, in a world of Asbo's, unruly children, rioting, unsociable behaviour in the streets, binge drinking, truancy etc etc which is at an all time high.
Has the fact we can no longer discipline our children in the manner our parents and grandparents, and even teachers, did, now the reason for all the rises in unsociable behaviour?
Those of you who have children, do you smack your children ever?
I have to say we have. But we don't do it all the time, only when we feel it is absolutely necessary to show our son that whatever action he has just done is totally unacceptable and feel that a smack is the only way to show him this. He is a child that responds to other methods most of the time but I am not scared to smack him if I need to. I was smacked, it did me no harm and it taught me that certain things I did were very very wrong.
Do you agree with the new laws about smacking or is it just yet another step too far? Another rule by "big brother"? Should we have the right to discipline our children in the manner we see fit? (within reason)
I personally think there is a world of difference between disciplining your child by using a smack when needed and abusing your child with constant hitting (totally different to smacking) and other awful things some parents have done to their children, as we have sadly seen in the media.
What about teachers? Obviously when my parents went to school they got the cane or ruler on the back of the hand. I'm not sure that I agree with this type of discipline but I do think it's all getting out of control in schools. Again, the rules on what teachers are or are not allowed to do I think has gone too far.
My nephew has decided that he doesn't want to go to school anymore. We fear he's being bullied but he won't tell anyone, just says he isn't. He'll go in the car to the school but once at the school gates he screams and kicks and won't go in. He is 11. The teachers stand and watch from the other side of the gates, unable to help him in or take him off his parents because they are "not allowed" to touch him. My BIL is facing a fine and possible imprisonment if this continues and they can't get him to go. But if the teachers can't take him and they can't get him past the gate, what do you do??
I hear all too often about teachers having nervous breakdowns because of how unruly the children are and there's nothing they can do. How should they take back control? What are your thoughts on this?
So is a lack of discipline and the countless rules that have been devised over the years responsible for our next generations attitude and behaviour? Or is it just down to parenting? That it's how children are brought up by parents who couldn't care less themselves perhaps and nothing to do with discipline at all?
Has the fact we can no longer discipline our children in the manner our parents and grandparents, and even teachers, did, now the reason for all the rises in unsociable behaviour?
Those of you who have children, do you smack your children ever?
I have to say we have. But we don't do it all the time, only when we feel it is absolutely necessary to show our son that whatever action he has just done is totally unacceptable and feel that a smack is the only way to show him this. He is a child that responds to other methods most of the time but I am not scared to smack him if I need to. I was smacked, it did me no harm and it taught me that certain things I did were very very wrong.
Do you agree with the new laws about smacking or is it just yet another step too far? Another rule by "big brother"? Should we have the right to discipline our children in the manner we see fit? (within reason)
I personally think there is a world of difference between disciplining your child by using a smack when needed and abusing your child with constant hitting (totally different to smacking) and other awful things some parents have done to their children, as we have sadly seen in the media.
What about teachers? Obviously when my parents went to school they got the cane or ruler on the back of the hand. I'm not sure that I agree with this type of discipline but I do think it's all getting out of control in schools. Again, the rules on what teachers are or are not allowed to do I think has gone too far.
My nephew has decided that he doesn't want to go to school anymore. We fear he's being bullied but he won't tell anyone, just says he isn't. He'll go in the car to the school but once at the school gates he screams and kicks and won't go in. He is 11. The teachers stand and watch from the other side of the gates, unable to help him in or take him off his parents because they are "not allowed" to touch him. My BIL is facing a fine and possible imprisonment if this continues and they can't get him to go. But if the teachers can't take him and they can't get him past the gate, what do you do??
I hear all too often about teachers having nervous breakdowns because of how unruly the children are and there's nothing they can do. How should they take back control? What are your thoughts on this?
So is a lack of discipline and the countless rules that have been devised over the years responsible for our next generations attitude and behaviour? Or is it just down to parenting? That it's how children are brought up by parents who couldn't care less themselves perhaps and nothing to do with discipline at all?