Yolande, I'm gonna be honest with you. You are stuck in a vicious circle. You want him to commit, he doesnt want to commit. You argue, fight, throw him out and then take him back cos the best part of breaking up is the making up and then after being all loved up for a while the same issues come back round. The reason why this keeps happening is because you keep letting it happen and he knows he can get away with it. Okay....so he may run a few errands for you or do the laundry but he's not giving you what you so desperately want out of this relationship....marriage and to build a secure loving family unit. The only person thats getting anything out of the situation is you and all you are getting is heartache and pain and do you really need this stress when you are having a baby. It's time to get strong girlfriend, a real man would want to love, cherish, provide, protect and nurture their partner and family. It looks like this guy is doing none of that, the only thing he is doing is playing you. You are worth so much more and deserve so much more. If he's not going to play the game then you dont want to play either.
Love David.x
Love David.x