Wonda
Well-Known Member
I've always been in the same boat .... when i left school i hung around with a bunch of guys cause i was into Ice Hockey, the guys were older than me, which was ok cause i had an old head on young shoulders, i then got involved with 1 of them who was 13 years older than me.
So at the point where all my school friends were going to college/uni & going out drinking/clubbing, i was working in a boring office & then settling down with a guy.
10 years later when i became single & wanted to go out partying, all the people my own age were settling down & didn't want to know.
I went to night school & became good friends with a girl who moved into the area, i've known her for nearly 6 years now, we used to go out every month for meals & the cinema, but then she settled down & had a baby & i was dropped like a hot potato, i know it's not her fault or the new baby as priorities change.
I have a wide circle of people i know, but less than a handful of friends, i'm into motorbikes & there's a whole community of bikers ..... but the 1's i've tried to get into are very clicky, most of the members are blokes & the partners/female bikers did not want another female who can ride just as good as the guys in their little fraternity.
I find it hard to make friends as i've tried so many times & been on the receiving end of some serious bullying that i've now given up trying.
It's the same with trying to find a partner .... most blokes think women with short hair that ride bikes are lesbians ...... erm ... no, i love guys, i love what guys have between their legs, but all the guys i fancy, all want a long hair blonde/brunette to take home to their parents, not a red short haired girl who has a 600cc bike in the garage !!
It's really annoying, as i know i'm a good laugh, i know i'm a good catch, but i'm fed up trying to meet new people/guys as everytime i do, i fail & end up feeling worse.
So every night i sit on my bed in my parents house (cause i dont earn enough to get a place of my own but earn too much for government assistance) surfing the net looking at stuff, watching stuff online & then go to bed early.
It's like Groundhog day !!
So at the point where all my school friends were going to college/uni & going out drinking/clubbing, i was working in a boring office & then settling down with a guy.
10 years later when i became single & wanted to go out partying, all the people my own age were settling down & didn't want to know.
I went to night school & became good friends with a girl who moved into the area, i've known her for nearly 6 years now, we used to go out every month for meals & the cinema, but then she settled down & had a baby & i was dropped like a hot potato, i know it's not her fault or the new baby as priorities change.
I have a wide circle of people i know, but less than a handful of friends, i'm into motorbikes & there's a whole community of bikers ..... but the 1's i've tried to get into are very clicky, most of the members are blokes & the partners/female bikers did not want another female who can ride just as good as the guys in their little fraternity.
I find it hard to make friends as i've tried so many times & been on the receiving end of some serious bullying that i've now given up trying.
It's the same with trying to find a partner .... most blokes think women with short hair that ride bikes are lesbians ...... erm ... no, i love guys, i love what guys have between their legs, but all the guys i fancy, all want a long hair blonde/brunette to take home to their parents, not a red short haired girl who has a 600cc bike in the garage !!
It's really annoying, as i know i'm a good laugh, i know i'm a good catch, but i'm fed up trying to meet new people/guys as everytime i do, i fail & end up feeling worse.
So every night i sit on my bed in my parents house (cause i dont earn enough to get a place of my own but earn too much for government assistance) surfing the net looking at stuff, watching stuff online & then go to bed early.
It's like Groundhog day !!