Absolutebeautyx
Well-Known Member
Hello geeks, need a bit advice although it's a sad one
Last night my boyfriends very good friend was found after he hung himself, he was still alive only just when they found him but in the early hours of this morning they turned off his life support. My poor boyfriend is devastated I have honestly never seen him upset in the 4 and a bit years I have been with him. they don't see each other much so he keeps on saying if I had phoned him yesterday or the day before would he still be okay or if I had saw him more would he maybe still be here?? I keep telling him everyone will be thinking the same but I know he can't believe me. I just want to cry for him but feel I need to be the strong one so how do you be strong when someone you love is so upset and you can't take the pain away? My heart is breaking for him, it really puts stuff into perspective and makes you realise how much people mean to you! Sorry for the long post suppose I just needed to talk to someone xx
Last night my boyfriends very good friend was found after he hung himself, he was still alive only just when they found him but in the early hours of this morning they turned off his life support. My poor boyfriend is devastated I have honestly never seen him upset in the 4 and a bit years I have been with him. they don't see each other much so he keeps on saying if I had phoned him yesterday or the day before would he still be okay or if I had saw him more would he maybe still be here?? I keep telling him everyone will be thinking the same but I know he can't believe me. I just want to cry for him but feel I need to be the strong one so how do you be strong when someone you love is so upset and you can't take the pain away? My heart is breaking for him, it really puts stuff into perspective and makes you realise how much people mean to you! Sorry for the long post suppose I just needed to talk to someone xx