Wow a bit of a down day today for me, silly I know but I guess we all get them
( don't we?! )
So a few little things have been niggling away at me since I rented a room in a hair salon from feb this year.
I understand there has to be guidelines in place etc and tbh for them I am grateful in a way.
I no longer share the room with a teeth whitening lady ( well technically I do but it is not on the same days now we are in on different days ) which as you can imagine was a struggle at the start but anyway, I got a message on Monday from the salon owner asking if we can have a meeting this week.
Now I know this is silly as I haven't done anything wrong but I have done nothing but over think this ( I am a worrier I am afraid ) and it's actually made me realise I hate someone else having the ability to make me feel this way and take up so much of my time with me worrying.
When being self employed like many of you we have our own business worries.
I know I need to wait and see what it's about but this is going to happen every time they want a meeting and it's draining, I suffer with lichen planus as it is so I try to manage my stress levels but this is unforeseen.
So I guess I stick it out as business is doing ok, I'm not going to go to another salon as I feel i could just have the same issues & worries transferred to a different environment.
I'm trying to cut down on the mobile work as it affects my health ( other issues lol ) and I'm a person who falls into the category of living at home at an older age with parents as I'm trying to put together a deposit ( so no home salon for me yet )
This is all so whiney and woe is me, which like a lot of people, I've had my rough times and when I look back to those this certainly isn't one of them.
But now I'm at a cross roads what's next? What options do I have? I'm not generally a flaky person but this is making me feel this way.
Any advice, ( if anyone can be bothered to read is silly post ) is gratefully received.
Thanks x
( don't we?! )
So a few little things have been niggling away at me since I rented a room in a hair salon from feb this year.
I understand there has to be guidelines in place etc and tbh for them I am grateful in a way.
I no longer share the room with a teeth whitening lady ( well technically I do but it is not on the same days now we are in on different days ) which as you can imagine was a struggle at the start but anyway, I got a message on Monday from the salon owner asking if we can have a meeting this week.
Now I know this is silly as I haven't done anything wrong but I have done nothing but over think this ( I am a worrier I am afraid ) and it's actually made me realise I hate someone else having the ability to make me feel this way and take up so much of my time with me worrying.
When being self employed like many of you we have our own business worries.
I know I need to wait and see what it's about but this is going to happen every time they want a meeting and it's draining, I suffer with lichen planus as it is so I try to manage my stress levels but this is unforeseen.
So I guess I stick it out as business is doing ok, I'm not going to go to another salon as I feel i could just have the same issues & worries transferred to a different environment.
I'm trying to cut down on the mobile work as it affects my health ( other issues lol ) and I'm a person who falls into the category of living at home at an older age with parents as I'm trying to put together a deposit ( so no home salon for me yet )
This is all so whiney and woe is me, which like a lot of people, I've had my rough times and when I look back to those this certainly isn't one of them.
But now I'm at a cross roads what's next? What options do I have? I'm not generally a flaky person but this is making me feel this way.
Any advice, ( if anyone can be bothered to read is silly post ) is gratefully received.
Thanks x