noddingnelly
Active Member
Hi
sorry in advance if this is abit long i will try to condense it.
I have had a phone call from my husband ex, she knew hes at work on shifts.
It goes back about a month ago when his kids were over and the eldest started to kick up and do rude drawings of the other kid yy, he was told to stop but eventually hubby got annoyed with xx and sent xx to sit on the bench outside for 10 mins. xx refused and sat on the floor laughing and goading hubby on knowing there was nothing hubby could do as he was off work with a cracked rib, so i was asked to help out and get xx up and out.
xx is a very tall obese 13 yr so no movingxx.
Eventually we decided to take kids home, xx was taking up all the room at the back door where the shoes are, so i asked xx to get out to make space for others to get sorted when they came through,
"Make me" was the reply, so i cupped xx face in my hands and asked why xxdoes this, reply, hit me on the chin go on hit me, i laughed and said no it does no good and what would xx do if i did, reply i have stabbed someone in the neck before and i could do you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!At this point i flipped and clipped xx ear.
Yes very wrong and i regret it as soon as done.
major agro, phone calls later and things have been sorted and everyone was in agreeance it was a one off and it wont happen again. ( i am really placid and it takes alot to get me wound up like that)
It was yy birthaday on the weekend and we did a party, cake, swimming, everything was ok, so hubby and i thought.
this afternoon i had the ex call, saying she doesnt want me around her kids im not to be in if they come over, It wasnt xx fault xx threatens her all the time.
I have to watch my back as she will "get me when the time is right could be in weeks days or a year". i asked if she was threatening me and she said yes. "i know where you live"
She has also been arrested for beating up her estranged husband. to be honest im really shaken over this. i have all my doors locked and bolted even though she cannot drive and lives 2 towns away from us.
Hubby finishes work at 6 and i sent him a message to come straight here and not to go there incase she has texted him they are only around the corner from his work. He doesnt know whats gone on yet.
Hubby did back me up and agreed in principle why what happened happened but doesnt want a repeat, which i dont either.
Sorry to go on. thanks for reading
sorry in advance if this is abit long i will try to condense it.
I have had a phone call from my husband ex, she knew hes at work on shifts.
It goes back about a month ago when his kids were over and the eldest started to kick up and do rude drawings of the other kid yy, he was told to stop but eventually hubby got annoyed with xx and sent xx to sit on the bench outside for 10 mins. xx refused and sat on the floor laughing and goading hubby on knowing there was nothing hubby could do as he was off work with a cracked rib, so i was asked to help out and get xx up and out.
xx is a very tall obese 13 yr so no movingxx.
Eventually we decided to take kids home, xx was taking up all the room at the back door where the shoes are, so i asked xx to get out to make space for others to get sorted when they came through,
"Make me" was the reply, so i cupped xx face in my hands and asked why xxdoes this, reply, hit me on the chin go on hit me, i laughed and said no it does no good and what would xx do if i did, reply i have stabbed someone in the neck before and i could do you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!At this point i flipped and clipped xx ear.
Yes very wrong and i regret it as soon as done.
major agro, phone calls later and things have been sorted and everyone was in agreeance it was a one off and it wont happen again. ( i am really placid and it takes alot to get me wound up like that)
It was yy birthaday on the weekend and we did a party, cake, swimming, everything was ok, so hubby and i thought.
this afternoon i had the ex call, saying she doesnt want me around her kids im not to be in if they come over, It wasnt xx fault xx threatens her all the time.
I have to watch my back as she will "get me when the time is right could be in weeks days or a year". i asked if she was threatening me and she said yes. "i know where you live"
She has also been arrested for beating up her estranged husband. to be honest im really shaken over this. i have all my doors locked and bolted even though she cannot drive and lives 2 towns away from us.
Hubby finishes work at 6 and i sent him a message to come straight here and not to go there incase she has texted him they are only around the corner from his work. He doesnt know whats gone on yet.
Hubby did back me up and agreed in principle why what happened happened but doesnt want a repeat, which i dont either.
Sorry to go on. thanks for reading