Hi everyone
So I’m looking for some advise
Iv been best friends with someone for 12 year...
6months ago another girl came along that me and my BF got really closes too and all three of us use to go out together and do stuff all together..
the last few months they have been leaving me out not inviting me places but when they did invite me they just make jokes about what they have been up to and what they have done together.. then ask me why I wasn’t getting involved in ther convos
Iv had it out with them both and they said I was been silly so this week I really made an effort and asked them both on Tuesday to go for breakfast on Thursday morning.. they both said they was busy..
but then one of them put what time are we going from breakfast Wednesday ?knowing I work Wednesday ??? On Wednesday they was sending me pictures all day of them both together having breakfast and dinner together..
then Thursday came and same again pictures of ther breakfast together and dinner together and same again Friday..
Also
My BF wedding is in March and I was always doing the hair for free as a wedding present but everything I did on the trail day and said as a profession hairdresser wasn’t good enough.. she was telling me what stuff I could and couldn’t use.. we had a right argument. And now she’s got someone else to do the wedding hair..
I feel like I’m been so paranoid it’s unreal.. Iv been around to one of there houses tonight and we all had our partners with us and all they have done is what shall we do next week we should defo do this... not including me.. then they was both sat on the sofa texting each other laughing.. I couldn’t take it anymore and walked out with my partner..
The question. I wanna ask is.. I’m booked on one of there hen dos in 18 days it’s cost so much.. I’m also both of them bridesmaids my best friend in March and the other one in August what would u all do ??
Thank you in advance for your advance
So I’m looking for some advise
Iv been best friends with someone for 12 year...
6months ago another girl came along that me and my BF got really closes too and all three of us use to go out together and do stuff all together..
the last few months they have been leaving me out not inviting me places but when they did invite me they just make jokes about what they have been up to and what they have done together.. then ask me why I wasn’t getting involved in ther convos
Iv had it out with them both and they said I was been silly so this week I really made an effort and asked them both on Tuesday to go for breakfast on Thursday morning.. they both said they was busy..
but then one of them put what time are we going from breakfast Wednesday ?knowing I work Wednesday ??? On Wednesday they was sending me pictures all day of them both together having breakfast and dinner together..
then Thursday came and same again pictures of ther breakfast together and dinner together and same again Friday..
Also
My BF wedding is in March and I was always doing the hair for free as a wedding present but everything I did on the trail day and said as a profession hairdresser wasn’t good enough.. she was telling me what stuff I could and couldn’t use.. we had a right argument. And now she’s got someone else to do the wedding hair..
I feel like I’m been so paranoid it’s unreal.. Iv been around to one of there houses tonight and we all had our partners with us and all they have done is what shall we do next week we should defo do this... not including me.. then they was both sat on the sofa texting each other laughing.. I couldn’t take it anymore and walked out with my partner..
The question. I wanna ask is.. I’m booked on one of there hen dos in 18 days it’s cost so much.. I’m also both of them bridesmaids my best friend in March and the other one in August what would u all do ??
Thank you in advance for your advance