Lady Murasaki
Well-Known Member
Hello geeks!
My mum and I had an arrangement while I was working part time that I would occasionally colour her hair to keep costs down for her (she had split up from her BF and is now renting) and she offered to cover my products. I'm now working full time and busy with my business and as a locum nurse and this arrangement is getting out of hand.
My mum lives in Wiltshire and I live in South Hampshire and she travels to me.
The problem is this now dominating and taking up my time every time she comes down to 'visit' my partner and I As she wants her hair doing and I'm finding it difficult to fit her in as I'm working 6/7 day weeks and the last thing I want to do it do a colour.
I have suggested she gets someone near her, but it didn't go down well.
She also creates and has drama moments about what she is going to wear to have her hair done (I kid you not) and is rude/belittling to me in my own home, out in public and in front of my partner.
she has now stopped covering my costs the last 2 times and wants to leave as soon as I've done hair or just travel down/up I the same day.
We are no close, she has arranged a trip to Italy with my sister and I'm not invited, but wants her hair doing before she goes :-/
I just don't know what to do!
My mum and I had an arrangement while I was working part time that I would occasionally colour her hair to keep costs down for her (she had split up from her BF and is now renting) and she offered to cover my products. I'm now working full time and busy with my business and as a locum nurse and this arrangement is getting out of hand.
My mum lives in Wiltshire and I live in South Hampshire and she travels to me.
The problem is this now dominating and taking up my time every time she comes down to 'visit' my partner and I As she wants her hair doing and I'm finding it difficult to fit her in as I'm working 6/7 day weeks and the last thing I want to do it do a colour.
I have suggested she gets someone near her, but it didn't go down well.
She also creates and has drama moments about what she is going to wear to have her hair done (I kid you not) and is rude/belittling to me in my own home, out in public and in front of my partner.
she has now stopped covering my costs the last 2 times and wants to leave as soon as I've done hair or just travel down/up I the same day.
We are no close, she has arranged a trip to Italy with my sister and I'm not invited, but wants her hair doing before she goes :-/
I just don't know what to do!