ahhh the "broken heart thing" How WELL do I know that one!!! I can tell you alot of stories about my own personal experinces. When you are going through it, it feels like the world around you has slowed down, nothing feels right without them and it hurts!!! no two ways about that. Wish I had a magic wand to take it all away from ya (really mean that). and like others have said it does get easier with time. There was a bit of advice once given to me- and perhaps you have heard it before- but i find its true- and thats broken hearts are a good thing in one aspect because it helps us to recognize what we REALLY need and want from our next relationship. It helps us to realize "true" love when we find it. and to appreciate what we have when we get it. Each time our hearts break its a reminder that we are human and that we have the ability to love , feel love and be loved.. even if only for a moment. each time our heart breaks there is a lesson to be had (though its hard to figure out sometimes.) and it prepares us for the "right one". one of the wisest women i have ever known used to say concerning love " we have to try on alot of shoes before we find the perfect fit"( lol) how true that really is!! and in my personal opinnion no matter how tempting it is refrain completley from the radio!!!! (just kidding) but seriously, have you ever just gone through something like this, and you put on the radio only to hear a "sad song" that makes you just want to cry your eyes out? lol it happens every time with me- hence why i lock mine up when feeling to blue. theres no easy way to mend a broken heart, but i find comfort in dear friends and a peace of mind knowing they are either right there, a phone call away, or an instant message apart. I wish you a quick mend, and a happier tomorrow!!!!
