Ooh, thank-you all so much. We're not going out till 4.30, so Peter's doing things with an axe (outside, luckily), and I am sipping Prosecco and Geeking. Happy days!
I don't think there is a secret. We still have ding-dongs occasionally, but we don't take outbursts of temper too seriously.
I suppose if I had to analyse I would say that you have to be your own person, you should never rely on anyone else to run your life for you.Recognise your separate strengths, and use them as tools for your marriage. Don't have unrealistic expectations. Be loyal. Don't take yourself or life too seriously. And above all remember that no-one is perfect, no, not even Dandelionpoppy.:wink2: