Elaine Armani
Well-Known Member
Hi guys.
I'm really shattered.
I don't really want to tell anyone so I thought I can come on here.
My dad was using my laptop and left his Facebook logged in, I was going to log out and then I saw unread messages from a women, the conversation was really intense I immediately felt sick to the stomach and logged out.
I don't really know where his taking this whole thing but this isn't the first time I have seen him chatting intimately with other women. I've told my mum before because it wasn't as serious as this he was just commenting on some women's photos.
I still live at home so I would hate to see my dad actually leave with someone else like he said he would in the conversation.
I actually feel a lot of hate towards him right now, I don't have a strong relationship with him but I don't have a bad one with him either.
My mum is 52 and my dad is 8 years younger, my dad was really abusive to my mum and then few years ago he was diagnosed with schizophrenia, my mum put up with his shi.t all of these years and I don't understand why he can't just make her happy for once and appreciate how lovely and patient she has been with him.
I feel really angry and love my mum so much. I don't know if I should tell my mum because I know it would hurt her, she always says she's finally happy with her life because he's finally not abusive and etc.
I don't know what to do...
I'm really shattered.
I don't really want to tell anyone so I thought I can come on here.
My dad was using my laptop and left his Facebook logged in, I was going to log out and then I saw unread messages from a women, the conversation was really intense I immediately felt sick to the stomach and logged out.
I don't really know where his taking this whole thing but this isn't the first time I have seen him chatting intimately with other women. I've told my mum before because it wasn't as serious as this he was just commenting on some women's photos.
I still live at home so I would hate to see my dad actually leave with someone else like he said he would in the conversation.
I actually feel a lot of hate towards him right now, I don't have a strong relationship with him but I don't have a bad one with him either.
My mum is 52 and my dad is 8 years younger, my dad was really abusive to my mum and then few years ago he was diagnosed with schizophrenia, my mum put up with his shi.t all of these years and I don't understand why he can't just make her happy for once and appreciate how lovely and patient she has been with him.
I feel really angry and love my mum so much. I don't know if I should tell my mum because I know it would hurt her, she always says she's finally happy with her life because he's finally not abusive and etc.
I don't know what to do...