blossom
Well-Known Member
Could you confide in a mutual friend and get them to bring the subject up? Xx
I'm most definitely not a bridesmaid anymore. She clearly stated her two cousins are bridesmaids, you wouldn't say that if I was included.
It will be a difficult one to bring up with her as I've not seen or spoken to her since, before Xmas. She's not made any effort to contact me either. I'll admit she's rubbish when it comes to texting back (replies take weeks sometimes) but it's almost as if she's fading me out so she doesn't have to deal with it.
Then again I have to remind her every time we go to the hairdressers (we go together), I didn't last month and she didn't turn up. Text her later that day and told her and she seemed to have genuinely forgot. Luckily my hairdresser is a very old friend and is very understanding.
girl why all this faffing around?
ask her directly if you are bridesmaid and if not then why did she drop you?
friends don't treat each other like that
and if she has dropped you then really think whether she is the kind of girl you want to be around or go to her wedding
girl why all this faffing around?
ask her directly if you are bridesmaid and if not then why did she drop you?
friends don't treat each other like that
and if she has dropped you then really think whether she is the kind of girl you want to be around or go to her wedding
I don't know why so many women turn into monsters around their wedding. It's supposed to be a day to celebrate being in love. Not what the bridesmaids look like, or how good the hair is!
They loose total respect for friends, and those around them, so awful!
This is a relationship of convenience....
At Her convenience only.
She picks up and puts you down when she wants, she loves the fact that you are at here beck and call.
She prob enjoys the fact you chase her with texts to 'reminder her' of things you have planned.
The fact that she doesn't turn up if you don't badger her speaks volumes .
I hope for your sake she will honour her promise and make you a bridesmaid, however like many people with her personality trait they do tend to string others along and make empty gestures for their own personal gain or as a way of controlling people.
move on and invest your time in people who are genuine friends and don't mess you about.
If she was a really friend she would of clarified your position as a bridesmaid ages ago without having to to asked
We received the save the date card last year, we haven't received anything since.
I'm getting the feeling we are no longer invited either. Apparently they were sending the invites out end of January. So even 2nd class post it would have arrived by now.
I'm going to be super p****d off if we aren't invited anymore after booking flights and the hotel etc. if that's the case I hope to god I can get some of my money back.
Think I will approach the subject sooner just to get it over and done with. X
You gave very clearly pissed her off....maybe she felt you were too rapped up in your stuff ??
You gave very clearly pissed her off....maybe she felt you were too rapped up in your stuff ??
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