Sorry to hear about your husband, least the treatment has been done and now it is onwards and upwards!
I know exactly the difficulties illness can cause, I have been ill for a year, totally wiped off my feet, bed bound etc, went from a fantastic job, riding my horses, out with my friends etc and lost it all due to illness! The doctors have been very frustrating still not knowing what it wrong with me possibility of M.E or cushings disease. Then to find a have a heart condition by coincidence then meant to have the op last Friday, to get to the hospital to be told they have messed up and now have to wait until Tuesday for a next date! Any way within the last few months I have progressed more everyday although there have been some fall backs along the way but now do odd treatments for family and friends!
Anyway the reason for my post is to say although it has been the most difficult year I wouldn't change it (apart from losing my grandad :-( ) before being ill I worked with adults with learning disabilities and had a role I was proud of but also found stressful but now I have completed beauty courses, starting to build the basis of my own business for when I am back to normal health, learnt who my true friends are, been approached by a very respected horse rider instructor to be trained in horse physiotherapy, have such a positive look on life and learnt so much and I finally turned 21 and even managed to have a big BBQ with friends and family! I am happier now than I ever have been and value absolutely everything!
Just wanted to share my story to hopefully give you a little boost
hope you and your husband have many happy years to come! Xxx