Wow there are some very judgemental people here!!!!! :irked:
Op, this lady did you a good turn and you offered to repay her as you could which was lovely, many wouldn't have done that sadly. However, right now, not only is it a busy time of year, but you are moving house and going through a very traumatic time yourself.
I have no doubt that when you are able you will indeed give your time and skills for free to say thank you to her, BUT you are not responsible for the awful year this woman has had and to be honest you need to focus on looking after yourself right now. Miscarriage is a horrible to thing to go through and its effects are not to be taken lightly. Please take care and don't allow yourself to be judged :hug: