ok, i think more than anything im writing this post as im so upset and fed up i need to get things off my chest,
a while ago i said on a post about my son whom has i form of schitzofrenia and cant have any medication for it as 1 he wont take it and 2 hes to young anyway, well things have gon from bad to worse with him, he is now totaly uncontrolabe, and a danger to himself and others as well as smoking and drinking, he is violent etc etc,
i can no longer cope with him, im totaly worn out, today he was expelled from his 4th senior school in 18 months, he tryed to set fire to a local play ground while there were loads of kids about, this weekend just gon he went missing for 48 hours he stole money from my perse, he has beaten the liveing daylights out of his sisteers, and tryed to hit my husband with a cricket post, this is only the more mild stuff he has done, he was only attending school for 2 hours a day as they couldnt cope with him there for any longer
anyway to cut o long story short, i have had to have him placed in a home that can deal with this behaviour, i am so worn out that my marrage and daughters are suffering im not sleeping properly, today i drove round town for 5 hours with him as i didnt know what to do, i feel like such a bad mother as i have failed him, he is only 12 and i know he needs his mum, i know a lot of people will not agree with what i have done but it has not been a decision taken lightly, i have no familly that i have any contact with i do not have any parents, the only person i have is a sister and she cant do anything to help either as my son dislocated her sons sholder not long ago so they try to stay away ffrom him, i have never smoked so much and i am not a drinker but i really feel like hiting the bottle right now,
i feel like im in limbo, i want to get him help as soon as posible,
im such a failure, i dont think i deserved to have kids if i cant cope with this one as there are many people out there whom could cope, i know in the place he has gone they have the training needed but it doesnt make me feel any better
sorry about this i just had to get it off my chest and have a good rant, maybe i can stop crying now and have a cup of tea (or baileys)