mimmimus
Well-Known Member
I know it might not help as I have zero problem with my oh going to see strippers. I have a few friends who are strippers so I get it. My oh has only been once and he doesn't really enjoy it but it was for a stag so no choice lol
I was like you when he first told me. I wasn't happy with a woman shaking her junk in his face BUT then my mom gave me some advice and I thought it made a ton of sense. He's your partner, He's in you bed every night, he loves and respects you so why let the thought of another woman's body up in his face bother you. It won't change how he feels about you, he's still going to come back to you, love you, respect you and sleep in your bed. Let him go have fun because ultimately he's yours and no stripper is going to change his mind which is true
aww Thanks so much, that was so nicely put and so true. That made me so happy when I read it, thank you. Now I just need to remember what you said and keep that in my mind. Thank god for salon geek, where else would I have gone for my rant lol