jojo@tranquil
Well-Known Member
I know this is really random, but does anyone have teenagers ?
I have a 15year old son, who up until around June time this year was a real home body, he had friends but wasn't bothered about socialising or girls, most of his time was on x box, doing school work or watching tv. He just turned 15 a few weeks ago and since school holidays he is out everyday, mainly with friends I don't know. Occasionally I see some of his old friends with him but it's usually a group I don't really know.
He started going out with this girl who is a year younger, she dumped him after a week but one day I noticed a huge love bite on his neck, he said Keira had done it, but they were just mates now.
Yesterday he came in with his whole neck covered in bites, I almost burst into tears and screamed at him, what the hell has he been doing, he apologised and said he didn't like having them but his girlfriend (Keira) again liked doing it and wouldn't stop.
I told him if I saw anymore on his neck he would be grounded, I just find it disgusting and I am so embarrassed by it, people must think I am a bad mum by the way he looks.
He had already asked if he could stay last night at his friends house which I had agreed to . So off him and his mate went.
I had a lie in this morning, got up about 9 am and his bag and shoes are here, he is in bed. Now usually he would just stay at his mates the morning if he stayed over there.
I am worried he has lied to me and has just been out all night with this girl or am I being paranoid, it just all seems odd to me.
I know I have to trust him. Do I confront him ?
I know he is growing up and it's good he is socialising more, I like it that he is out more, I just don't know what he is up to and who with, that scares me xx
I have a 15year old son, who up until around June time this year was a real home body, he had friends but wasn't bothered about socialising or girls, most of his time was on x box, doing school work or watching tv. He just turned 15 a few weeks ago and since school holidays he is out everyday, mainly with friends I don't know. Occasionally I see some of his old friends with him but it's usually a group I don't really know.
He started going out with this girl who is a year younger, she dumped him after a week but one day I noticed a huge love bite on his neck, he said Keira had done it, but they were just mates now.
Yesterday he came in with his whole neck covered in bites, I almost burst into tears and screamed at him, what the hell has he been doing, he apologised and said he didn't like having them but his girlfriend (Keira) again liked doing it and wouldn't stop.
I told him if I saw anymore on his neck he would be grounded, I just find it disgusting and I am so embarrassed by it, people must think I am a bad mum by the way he looks.
He had already asked if he could stay last night at his friends house which I had agreed to . So off him and his mate went.
I had a lie in this morning, got up about 9 am and his bag and shoes are here, he is in bed. Now usually he would just stay at his mates the morning if he stayed over there.
I am worried he has lied to me and has just been out all night with this girl or am I being paranoid, it just all seems odd to me.
I know I have to trust him. Do I confront him ?
I know he is growing up and it's good he is socialising more, I like it that he is out more, I just don't know what he is up to and who with, that scares me xx