OK...here goes :lol:
Spain is a fantastic country...I love it...the people are very welcoming...although you wouldn't know it
There isn't quite so much crime although it is most definitely there...especially in the major towns....even here in our little town...You do feel safer so to speak though.
The weather is great...if you like the sun...but it does rain...and it does get cold.
There are jobs...there are ways to make money...but it isn't easy. You have to work pretty hard for your money here...there isn't much time for sipping Sangria and watching the world go by unless you are retired. For ex-pats the main work for the men is in construction/tiling/painting/decorating... odd job men!!!!
Children I don't think have much problem when they are young...mine didn't. My advice...put them into Spanish schools...not International Schools. If you want them to integrate, learn the language properly and become part of the community this is essential. None of my children knew Spanish when we came here and now all 4 of them ( the baby has yet to learn it !! ) speak it fluently and only have Spanish friends...
I don't think it is essential to know Spanish before you arrive other than the basics. It is something you don't seem to be able to pick up in the classroom unless you are good at languages... you learn it from being here... Don't waste money on private lessons... listen to the Spanish how they say it...
here in Javea they speak a lot of Valenciano...so Castellano ( Spanish ) is a waste of time sometimes... Different areas have different accents...same as the UK...and there are a lot of Southern Americans who speak it differently again... So it is best to arrive...and listen...
It is amazing how two people who speak neithers' language can be fully understood...
There is a misconception that Spain is cheap to live. Far from it!!!!!
It might seem cheaper...but everything has risen sharply these last couple of years like Sandi said....
don't forget the wages are a lot lower too...so in comparison there isn't much difference...
If you smoke and drink alcohol...great...that is cheaper...but nothing else is.
Clothes are hard to find for children... school books have to be paid for....property is very expensive....( depending on where you want to live of course )....
As for anything to do with paperwork or authority in Spain...if you think the UK has lost the plot...then Spain is coming right up behind... honestly I love my adopted homeland and people...but they don't know their @rse from their elbow sometimes...
I am not trying to put you off...it is a great country to live in...but I have seen lots of people move here with visions of an easier, cheaper, more relaxing way of life... it isn't that way....but it is nice to wake up to the beautiful sea every day :hug: xxxxxxx