Jellybaby1970
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:sad::hug::hug::hug: multiple hugs....that is all xx
Worst news ever!
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MrsHBeauty
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Sending my love.
My dad and I are so close, I couldn't imagine anything happening to him.
Cry whenever you want, no one will judge you.
My mother in law was diagnosed with breast cancer 7 years ago, it was a terrible time. We sent her fliers after every operation and every chemo/radiation treatment. Just sending a text with a few kisses on helped me. I wanted her to know we were there. We cried together and laughed together. We fell asleep non the sofa. I was quite closets my mother in law before but this brought us closer. She's now I to her 3rd year cancer free
Jemima
My dad and I are so close, I couldn't imagine anything happening to him.
Cry whenever you want, no one will judge you.
My mother in law was diagnosed with breast cancer 7 years ago, it was a terrible time. We sent her fliers after every operation and every chemo/radiation treatment. Just sending a text with a few kisses on helped me. I wanted her to know we were there. We cried together and laughed together. We fell asleep non the sofa. I was quite closets my mother in law before but this brought us closer. She's now I to her 3rd year cancer free
Jemima
Jodiex
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Thank you all for being so kind! I've managed two days at work and I actually think it does take my mind off it! Until someone asks how I am, or when a customer moans about the slightest thing and all I can think is there is so much more than that happening to moan about!
My dads surprise retirement do has been cancelled we're just going out for tea instead.
I want to buy him something for it, but just have no idea what at the minute!
I'm not crying as much, bought myself a big teddie to cuddle
It just can't be his time! He's Been at gun point several times, saved people from fires and Blackpool sea and so much more, i won't let a horrible disease take him! He's my hero xxx
My dads surprise retirement do has been cancelled
we're just going out for tea instead.I want to buy him something for it, but just have no idea what at the minute!
I'm not crying as much, bought myself a big teddie to cuddle
It just can't be his time! He's Been at gun point several times, saved people from fires and Blackpool sea and so much more, i won't let a horrible disease take him! He's my hero
xxx
Kerryrw
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My dads been given the all clear after battling cancer for 2 years. Chemo made him very ill and was really hard on us as a family to see him so poorly. But we all remained positive. We only ever discussed it as a family after important doctors appointment and so on, otherwise it was as if we were just all acting like he had a bad cold or something and didn't act any differently around him, my dads quite independent so we helped with things he couldn't manage to do and backed off when we new he was capable. U just have to take each day as it comes, but if u need a little cry have one, I certainly did!. As a family u will all come together and how u all cope with it will form a strong bond between u all that will get u through it. Sending hugs to u all xx
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Simply Kerry's Beauty <3
DanielleCaprice
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Thank you all for being so kind! I've managed two days at work and I actually think it does take my mind off it! Until someone asks how I am, or when a customer moans about the slightest thing and all I can think is there is so much more than that happening to moan about!
My dads surprise retirement do has been cancelled
I want to buy him something for it, but just have no idea what at the minute!
I'm not crying as much, bought myself a big teddie to cuddle
It just can't be his time! He's Been at gun point several times, saved people from fires and Blackpool sea and so much more, i won't let a horrible disease take him! He's my hero
Jodie, reading this bought a tear to my eye cz I'm so close to my parents... I don't no what your going threw & I'm not much help but just want to say big hugs to you & family xxxx
naturallybea
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Hello,
I am new to this forum but I wanted to send a hug *Hug*.
I can relate to this a lot. A week before my 21st birthday I had my first son Bobby Brian (named after my husbands late father and my father). A few days after the birth we found out my dad had pancreatic cancer (my mother told me over the phone whilst my husband was at work and I was looking after my baby). Anyways my dad dies when my son was 6 months old and he never got to meet my second son who I fell pregnant with a month after my dad died. As you can imagine I had all sorts of emotion going on whilst having to move house too, it was the lowest part if my life! But now that was nearly 4 years ago and time really did help me! My oldest son is now 4 and my you gets will be 3 in 3 weeks, I went to college last year to re do my beauty level 3 and I've signed up to hairdressing level two this year, extra courses and I'm busy building up my mobile business the best thing you can do is to be there for him, be there for your family and its ok to break down and let things out (it's worse if you don't as it all builds up), time will be on your side no matter what as no one can stop time. My best friends mams cancer has came back 3 times and she's still fighting strong! Everyone has a different cancer story and no one knows which way cancer could go. I do send all my love to you and pray everything will be ok but remember to be strong and take each day as it comes. If you want to chat at anytime then please feel free to message me. Xox
I am new to this forum but I wanted to send a hug *Hug*.
I can relate to this a lot. A week before my 21st birthday I had my first son Bobby Brian (named after my husbands late father and my father). A few days after the birth we found out my dad had pancreatic cancer (my mother told me over the phone whilst my husband was at work and I was looking after my baby). Anyways my dad dies when my son was 6 months old
and he never got to meet my second son who I fell pregnant with a month after my dad died. As you can imagine I had all sorts of emotion going on whilst having to move house too, it was the lowest part if my life! But now that was nearly 4 years ago and time really did help me! My oldest son is now 4 and my you gets will be 3 in 3 weeks, I went to college last year to re do my beauty level 3 and I've signed up to hairdressing level two this year, extra courses and I'm busy building up my mobile business the best thing you can do is to be there for him, be there for your family and its ok to break down and let things out (it's worse if you don't as it all builds up), time will be on your side no matter what as no one can stop time. My best friends mams cancer has came back 3 times and she's still fighting strong! Everyone has a different cancer story and no one knows which way cancer could go. I do send all my love to you and pray everything will be ok but remember to be strong and take each day as it comes. If you want to chat at anytime then please feel free to message me. Xox
Patricia76
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Hi
Really sorry to hear your sad news
I really understand how you feel if you want to cry shout scream do that
Sending lots of hugs to you
Really sorry to hear your sad news
I really understand how you feel if you want to cry shout scream do that
Sending lots of hugs to you
FlawlessBeauty
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My eyes are tearing up just reading this. I can't imagine being in your position.
Try your very best to stay positive and keep your amazing dad positive too. Cancer is not a death sentence any more and miracles happen every day...it sounds like your dad has been a miracle for many.
My thoughts and prayers are with you both sweetheart xx
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Try your very best to stay positive and keep your amazing dad positive too. Cancer is not a death sentence any more and miracles happen every day...it sounds like your dad has been a miracle for many.
My thoughts and prayers are with you both sweetheart xx
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Crystal colleen
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Hi big hugs to you xxx.
I just wanted to say C is not always the end,my grandad got cancer in his 50's he had kidney,postrate,stomach,skin etc at different times he had cancer for over 30 years he would get rid of one then another would pop up and he battled on.He never acted any different and we never acted any different around him that was his way of coping.I remember asking him "are you ok today grumpy (that's what I called him) and he would say "not to terrible" so we knew he was feeling rough or he would say" yes grand".Everyones body is different.
You do whats best for you so I'm not going to tell you what you should and shouldn't do.All I will say is be positive xxx
I just wanted to say C is not always the end,my grandad got cancer in his 50's he had kidney,postrate,stomach,skin etc at different times he had cancer for over 30 years he would get rid of one then another would pop up and he battled on.He never acted any different and we never acted any different around him that was his way of coping.I remember asking him "are you ok today grumpy (that's what I called him) and he would say "not to terrible" so we knew he was feeling rough or he would say" yes grand".Everyones body is different.
You do whats best for you so I'm not going to tell you what you should and shouldn't do.All I will say is be positive xxx
Jodie,
I just wanted to send you a massive hug!
Not all diagnosis are the start of the end. I have had cancer on and off since I was 15, I'm 42 now. My last diagnosis was just before Christmas last year. I'm still here fighting.
You can't stop what you feel, if you need a good cry then have one, its natural. Your scared,shocked everything rolled into one. Just try to take one day at a time, and don't put anything off. Xx
I hope you get some positive news shortly xxxxxx
I just wanted to send you a massive hug!
Not all diagnosis are the start of the end. I have had cancer on and off since I was 15, I'm 42 now. My last diagnosis was just before Christmas last year. I'm still here fighting.
You can't stop what you feel, if you need a good cry then have one, its natural. Your scared,shocked everything rolled into one. Just try to take one day at a time, and don't put anything off. Xx
I hope you get some positive news shortly xxxxxx
Jodiex
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THE BEST THING EVER HAS HAPPENED! Well- very worrying too! The doctor was wrong! My dad doesn't have cancer eeeeeeee - they aren't sure what it is yet, but the specialist has said it isn't cancer!
Thank you to everyone for your kind words xxxx
eeeeeeee - they aren't sure what it is yet, but the specialist has said it isn't cancer! Thank you to everyone for your kind words
xxxx
I havent a clue what to say as i havent lost anyone close x
I just hope your dad is ok , cancer is my biggest fear and i send my love and best wishes to you, your dad and all your family
I hope everything's ok x
I just hope your dad is ok , cancer is my biggest fear and i send my love and best wishes to you, your dad and all your family
I hope everything's ok x
Crystal colleen
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WHAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! so the hospital made a mistake ?.x
I can't believe the doctor got it wrong - but obviously it was a good thing! But thats terrible the shock/terror he has caused because of his misdiagnosis.
I do hope whatever it is though can be treated and your Dad is ok.
Least its good news that its not cancer, you will all be feeling much better now as a family. xx
I do hope whatever it is though can be treated and your Dad is ok.
Least its good news that its not cancer, you will all be feeling much better now as a family. xx
sanilulu
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Omg wth ...!!! .... Great news they were wrong though ...
Glad it's turned out good xxxxx
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Glad it's turned out good xxxxx
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Poseidon94
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Sending love to you and your family xxxxx
xxxxx
Jodiex
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So just thought I would give you all an update..
It went from testicular cancer to being told they had got it wrong and he didn't have cancer.
After months of more tests, he's got cancer..
They aren't sure, but think it's prostate.
It's spread and is now extensively in his bones and lymph nodes and is also in his kidney and liver. It's not curable..
He turned 49 in October, retired in August having done 32 years in the police.
He was the fittest/healthiest man I know.. He basically shouldn't be at risk of this cancer, and the doctors don't understand.
Just make sure if there's little signs of being ill to make sure your dads/brothers/sons/husbands go and peck at the doctor to make sure he's healthy. Because men don't go, they do the macho thing and then it's too late. This has honestly turned my entire family upside down and i wouldn't want anybody else to go through what we have had to.
Live everyday to the fullest, because you never know what's hiding behind the corner!
Now go and love all your friends and family and show them everyday. ❤️❤️Xx
It went from testicular cancer to being told they had got it wrong and he didn't have cancer.
After months of more tests, he's got cancer..
They aren't sure, but think it's prostate.
It's spread and is now extensively in his bones and lymph nodes and is also in his kidney and liver. It's not curable..
He turned 49 in October, retired in August having done 32 years in the police.
He was the fittest/healthiest man I know.. He basically shouldn't be at risk of this cancer, and the doctors don't understand.
Just make sure if there's little signs of being ill to make sure your dads/brothers/sons/husbands go and peck at the doctor to make sure he's healthy. Because men don't go, they do the macho thing and then it's too late. This has honestly turned my entire family upside down and i wouldn't want anybody else to go through what we have had to.
Live everyday to the fullest, because you never know what's hiding behind the corner!
Now go and love all your friends and family and show them everyday. ❤️❤️Xx
