tanfastic
Well-Known Member
Hi Geeks, I am sure some of you have noticed I have been on here a lot today, just absolutely floored with bad news . A close friend of mine's daughter (23 years old) was diagnosed with cancer a while back, she had radiotherapy and Chemo, in such great doses that it made her partially deaf and also frazzled her insides. After months went back for a check up and was told they had missed a bit and she had 3-6 months left.. Heartbreaking, such a beautiful girl, she was a make up artist and always looked gorgeous. She has been so ill and went downhill rapidly over the last few weeks.
She finally succumbed on Saturday and I am so upset for her and her mum. I only heard yesterday evening when her stepdad ( hubby's best friend sent me the message) her mum is too distraught to speak to anyone but close family at the moment. It was her only child and she was so proud of her. I called last night but their answerphone is on, I don't blame them, I left a message but ended up in tears halfway through, I refuse to text for such an emotional event but i do want to give her my sincere condolences and let her know I am here for her.
I have never had to console someone for the loss of their child. It just seems so unnatural, you don't expect to outlive your beautiful, vibrant exciting popular daughter,
What can I say without sounding trite and condescending or using the old clichés
She finally succumbed on Saturday and I am so upset for her and her mum. I only heard yesterday evening when her stepdad ( hubby's best friend sent me the message) her mum is too distraught to speak to anyone but close family at the moment. It was her only child and she was so proud of her. I called last night but their answerphone is on, I don't blame them, I left a message but ended up in tears halfway through, I refuse to text for such an emotional event but i do want to give her my sincere condolences and let her know I am here for her.
I have never had to console someone for the loss of their child. It just seems so unnatural, you don't expect to outlive your beautiful, vibrant exciting popular daughter,
What can I say without sounding trite and condescending or using the old clichés