Not picking on you, I am a curvy girl too, but your original comments before you edited and comments like the one I bolded are reading (to me) like it's unhealthy or unattractive to be thin or below a size 0. Now while you may prefer curves, not everyone does and not everyone has them. Making negative comments (like it's not a "good look" or "unhealthily thin") is body shaming.
Skinny doesn't necessarily mean unhealthy, just as fat doesn't. I just think we need to be mindful of who else is reading, when we make comments like that.
Ok well perhaps that's the way you read it but it's not the way it's intended. as It is what it is, just my personal opinion about my body and size! Perhaps I wasn't clear or concise enough as I quickly typed my initial comment perhaps not thinking my wording through enough and now I feel I'm having to justify my opinions on my own figure!!!!
I personally consider curves (on myself) to be more attractive, I'm not trying to judge anyone else as we are all different shapes and sizes and yes of course I think that being below a size zero can be unhealthy! If you aren't eating enough to get to that size then that's unhealthy! For me to get supermodel thin, I would have to really starve myself and so would a lot of other people and therefore it would be unhealthy!
It's just my personal preference and opinion in relation to my body, I would look awful as a size 0, as I'm just naturally larger than that, and it wouldn't be a good look at all! In fact when I was a size 10 people thought I was too skinny then and cast their judgements!
I just mean as a teenager I genuinely thought that to be skinny automatically was prettier, better, more attractive! I would see pics of models and think they were so much prettier than I was! Then when I got older my perceptions changed, I now very much appreciate curves on everyone and especially in myself! I lost weight a couple years ago and I realised I actually looked worse!
Now I am happy how I am I prefer it (well mainly although I could do with some firming up and less vino) as i said before not trying to offend anyone at all it's just my opinion on myself!
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