You know what, and it sounds awful, but I doubt it's ever going to get any better. Men like that don't change. They've either been well trained by their mothers and are brilliant from the start (like some of the wonderful hubbies who have been quoted on here)
or theyre a bunch of chauvinistic ****holes who will never change. If you're unhappy, get out. You're going to be unhappy for the rest of your life. You only get one chance at life, try and make it a happy one. No amount of leaving him temporarily will fix it. He will behave for a few weeks and then revert back to type. get rid. Permanently.
If anyone on here has managed to train a lazy, selfish pig into a Prince and had the effects last more than 12 months, I would be interested to hear it on here please.
Big hug to you by the way. I know how you're feeling. Be strong and move on.
Could not agree more, even if they do change its more then likely temporary as they no its what you want so on best behaviour.
I'm lucky to have after years and hard times to have found someone who is great in this way. (a little to tidy but hey) but we have been together four years and not living together and not engaged! I'm 40 next yr ��
But I've been engaged twice and I pushed it both times so a bit laid back this time, although I do keep hinting I don't want to be an old bride!
Also you say everyone around is happy but 9 out of 10 times if you really got talking people would start moaning about something. (my experience anyway)
My partner and me still have troubles and disagreements, he finds my daughter hard work at times so although we look all happy it's tough sometimes.
Think do you want to be in this position in five years?
I no I left my daughters dad as he was useless and would go out and not come home from the pub so I thought no, I get one go at life and I'm not wasting it on you!
Took a lot to leave as was in Liverpool and been there six years but I'm from Newcastle so is all my family so had to come back and start again.
Hard but don't regret it!
You need a good long think what you want and go with what you decide. Always here if you need a chat petal x x