pinkshell_nails
Well-Known Member
Well, im having a bit of a dilema at the moment, as my son, whos 8, is turning into a monster. Ive actually scared myself today as, after putting up with his rudeness, bad manners, naughtyness, and back chatting, well i filpped. He went to a birthday party this afternoon, and i just had to drop him off and collect him later. Well i thought he would be ok, as he's usually ok for people he doesnt know, he certainly wouldnt be cheeky to them, or so i thought! He came home after the party and the mum told me how both her and her hubby had had to tell him off all afternoon, as he was being really rude to all the adults, and back chatting them all. It may seem really trivial to all you guys, but ive been trying to cope with his behaviour for months now, what with being called into school all the time, and i asked my son to tidy his room, and he was really really rude and back chatted me massively. All of you with kids knows what its like when you get pushed and pushed all day, and i went mad with him. I just flipped and screamed the house down, and i cant believe how upset i actually feel. I had to walk away from him as i thought i was going to explode. Now i really dont know what to do with regards to his behaviour, its stating to really get me down. Ive tried telling him off, sending him to bed, no computor, not letting him out to play etc etc, all to no avail. At this moment in time i really do feel sad about it all. Hes been sent to bed and hour early, adn ive told him hes not having privilages all this week unless he earns them. Hes even on report at school for goodness sake!
Well, thats my moan of the day, and if anyone has any magic potions or solutions to help with my sons behaviour, feel free to let me know!
Well, thats my moan of the day, and if anyone has any magic potions or solutions to help with my sons behaviour, feel free to let me know!