MINKUS
Gel Junkie
NailStyle said:I had my first child at 22..another at 27 and another at 28. I don't think there is ever a right time to have kids...and there will always be reasons why you shouldn't ... those reasons are just the same when you have kids. To be honest (and older mums please don't be offended i am speaking about people that i have met only) i have known couples to wait and have kids when they are older and its been harder for them to adjust...they are set in there ways and used to just doing as they please and a little selfish (they can be as they have no-one to answer to) then this baby comes along and they just don't seem to cope as well as the younger couples. Don't get me wrong..sometimes i wish Rob and I had spent more time together and had holidays together first...but we will have plenty of time to do that when the kids are older.
What does he think will be better/different in 10 years then..?? people make excuses about not having kids just yet all the time...i don't get it...the time is never right and if you keep waiting and waiting...the years tick by and all of a sudden...here you are lovely home..nice holidays...stuck in your ways...no-one to share it with.
For all the reasons not to have kids i could give you a million more reasons to have them.
Sorry for rambling but for all the headaches i get from mine i would never be with out them...i just love babies and kids...they give you so much..and i believe make you a better person...babies rule !!!!
Start biting holes in them dobbers babes...lol
PMSL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:o u nutter