i think online dating is ok so long as YOU KEEP YOURSELF SAFE. i.e. tell someone where you are going and who you are seeing.
have any of you tried Spice. when i first heard about it i thought it was one of those naff clubs, but it turns out that not only loads of people my age are in it but also loads of people who are older (minkus, this one would be great for your mom i think). i went out with them one time and bumped into loads of people i knew... the sort you'd never guess would go!
It's basically a social club. They arrange a lot of get togethers for anyone, whether your single or attached. you can just go along, meet the co-ordinator and they introduce you. They arrange all sorts of outings and holidays. i went as a guest to go scuba-diving (local swimming pool but was a right larf). the woman who I was went with was a member and she had previously been on a holiday to africa to see gorillas (about 20 members wer on the holiday and non of them had met before). said she sat 6 foot away from a gorilla and showed me the photo to prove it. but on the other end of the scale they arrange things like ten pin bowling nights and meals at local restuarants or dinner and dances, balls and stuff. all the things are done cheaply (they get a discount because they such a massive natinawide organisation) and a magazine comes out once a month with all the events in for the next year. Each area has a local group. me and my mate at work are planning on going a day's horseriding with them (its about half price with them).
this is the website
www.spiceuk.com
best thing about it is its not a "dating" site but you meet loads of people and you don't have the added pressure of it being a dating site. if you meet someone you meet someone, if you don't then you just make loads of mates and no one cares.
Minx - i knew an mature lady that met a man on one of these type things! ended up getting married to him and living happily ever after! (blimey, maybe i should try it!)
o yea, the first person that told me about it was a woman at work. said she had gone to a spice party and showed me and my mate the photo's. well, they were all in stockings and suspenders so me and my mate thought they were swingers!!! turned out to be a vicars and tarts party!