Tsia
Well-Known Member
:cry: What is it with the male species? Or is it just mine???
Me and my partner have been together 3 years and our 'anniversary' of meeting is on 11th May.
Every year we get eachother a card and maybe a little token of love, and go out for a meal.. etc..
This year, after moving in together 8 months ago, I am not employed, cos I have taken time out to get my weight loss surgery done and eyes lasered etc.. I have bought a Train to become a Driving Instructor' course (hasnt yet arrived) and I have an interest in nails in my spare time.
Anyway, back to the point! I handed my card to my Partner along with a DVD to watch on the day after he had a long day policing the london railways.
He opened it and said thanks etc.. then there was a silence. I was expecting him to give me mine.. He didnt. I asked, he said he hasnt had time.
Fair enough, I was hurt but understand he does obscure hours.
Next morning, I dropped a few hints in a jokey way, but really meant what I was saying of course, and Last night he came home late again, after small talk, and just before bed, I asked him if he had anything for me. HE SHOOK HIS HEAD, said no! (I was really hurt and stormed off to bed)
When he got in bed, I went down the other end. (top to toe)
Got up early, ignored him all morning, kept busy (sent him to 'Coventry' really)
Then just as he left for work, he said, "right I'm going, may as well go to work if theres an atmosphere" I replied "bye then!" in a bit of a sarcastic manner. We ended up rowing a bit in the doorway. I told him that I couldnt believe there was not one shop that sold cards between here and London and that I felt hurt and unloved. To which he said, " maybe if you got a job you would understand so GET OVER IT!!" :cry:
Get over it? What should I do now? I cant beieve he said that.
I know I aint gonna answer his texts if I get one. However, he's a bit stubborn so I dont think he'll send one.
Am I going over the top about this or being silly? Or is it him? He knew the anniversary was coming up cos we spoke about it a few days before! How hard is it to get a quick card sorted??
Tell me honestly, I would prefer to hear the truth what you geeks think.
(sorry about this being long)
Me and my partner have been together 3 years and our 'anniversary' of meeting is on 11th May.
Every year we get eachother a card and maybe a little token of love, and go out for a meal.. etc..
This year, after moving in together 8 months ago, I am not employed, cos I have taken time out to get my weight loss surgery done and eyes lasered etc.. I have bought a Train to become a Driving Instructor' course (hasnt yet arrived) and I have an interest in nails in my spare time.
Anyway, back to the point! I handed my card to my Partner along with a DVD to watch on the day after he had a long day policing the london railways.
He opened it and said thanks etc.. then there was a silence. I was expecting him to give me mine.. He didnt. I asked, he said he hasnt had time.
Fair enough, I was hurt but understand he does obscure hours.
Next morning, I dropped a few hints in a jokey way, but really meant what I was saying of course, and Last night he came home late again, after small talk, and just before bed, I asked him if he had anything for me. HE SHOOK HIS HEAD, said no! (I was really hurt and stormed off to bed)
When he got in bed, I went down the other end. (top to toe)
Got up early, ignored him all morning, kept busy (sent him to 'Coventry' really)
Then just as he left for work, he said, "right I'm going, may as well go to work if theres an atmosphere" I replied "bye then!" in a bit of a sarcastic manner. We ended up rowing a bit in the doorway. I told him that I couldnt believe there was not one shop that sold cards between here and London and that I felt hurt and unloved. To which he said, " maybe if you got a job you would understand so GET OVER IT!!" :cry:
Get over it? What should I do now? I cant beieve he said that.
I know I aint gonna answer his texts if I get one. However, he's a bit stubborn so I dont think he'll send one.
Am I going over the top about this or being silly? Or is it him? He knew the anniversary was coming up cos we spoke about it a few days before! How hard is it to get a quick card sorted??
Tell me honestly, I would prefer to hear the truth what you geeks think.
(sorry about this being long)