pips
Well-Known Member
Ive been married 20 yrs on the 17th may and i can count on one hand the cards ive had of hubby, got one every yr for 4 yrs prior to getting married as well then once married, zilch, nada, sod all!
I ask him every yr "wheres my card" but i always get the same reply every time, "waste of money buying cards".
I know hes right as the prices are ridiculous for what you get but to me a card means so much more than flowers, choccies, clothes etc and i always keep the ones i get from family & friends.
That said he always, always buys me a gift (large bouquet of flowes a week ago today for my birthday & a new car)
Tsia, try not to worry about it, sit down and talk, tell him how you feel then let him have his say (dont butt in) when hes finished then discuss until you get to the bottom of all the neg feelings you both have going on right now.
HTH :hug:
I ask him every yr "wheres my card" but i always get the same reply every time, "waste of money buying cards".
I know hes right as the prices are ridiculous for what you get but to me a card means so much more than flowers, choccies, clothes etc and i always keep the ones i get from family & friends.
That said he always, always buys me a gift (large bouquet of flowes a week ago today for my birthday & a new car)
Tsia, try not to worry about it, sit down and talk, tell him how you feel then let him have his say (dont butt in) when hes finished then discuss until you get to the bottom of all the neg feelings you both have going on right now.
HTH :hug: