suzysuz
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Hello you lovely people
Really sorry to post on here but i cant work out if im going crazy or im really onto something
Me and my Mr have been arguing alot recently, we have both given up alot this year so he can start his own business as its something he has always wanted. We both decided to start it for our future. Its been a really stressful year and has really put our relationship under pressure.
We have been engaged for quite a while but he hasnt told any of his family, his relationship status is still 'in a relationship' on facebook whereas he went mental when i hadnt changed mine to engaged within a couple of days. I have asked him why he hasnt dont it and he said its becuase he wants it to be a suprise to everyone when we get married. None of his friends know we're engaged either which i find really odd.
To cut a very long story short he has started acting really strange since Saturday night. He went to see some friends and ever since he has been really odd. Little things like he took both of his business phones with him when he went when normally he would leave one with me incase anyone called or text wanting some work doing.
When he came back on saturday night he said he didnt know why he took both phones with him and only realised when he tried to call me and the phone went off in his pocket. Something didnt seem right so when i called a client the next day i looked at his call logs and there where no dialled calls to his secondary number and no missed calls on the other phone. I know its a little thing but why lie?
I also noticed that an old clients number was open on the secondary phone (like when you open your contacts to view there number) but he doesnt do work for her anymore as she really likes him and i said it made me uncomfortable, he agreed to has stopped working for her.
He has 2 facebook profiles, one personal and one business. He only uses his work one really and never normally goes on his personal one but all of sudden he was on there today. A few days ago he said he was going to delete his personal account and now he is on it, i find it really odd. On his personal account there are a few people that really like him and have in the past messaged him when we where together basically offering themselves on a plate. I dont think its appropriate for them to be on there still and i know for a fact if it was the other way around and it was happening to me he would go crazy and tell me to delete them but he just leaves these people on there. It just feels like double standards.
I cant help but think he is hiding something, he isnt acting like himself at all, seems really on edge, wont let go of his phones even though normally i always have them as i do all the admin stuff for his business and everytime i bring something up that has bothered me (like he has aked me to) he says that i am making him feel like everything is all his fault. I just feel like he is being over defensive.
Can someone please tell me if they think something is odd with him or if i am inface just going crazy
thanks for reading my made crazy rant xx
Really sorry to post on here but i cant work out if im going crazy or im really onto something
Me and my Mr have been arguing alot recently, we have both given up alot this year so he can start his own business as its something he has always wanted. We both decided to start it for our future. Its been a really stressful year and has really put our relationship under pressure.
We have been engaged for quite a while but he hasnt told any of his family, his relationship status is still 'in a relationship' on facebook whereas he went mental when i hadnt changed mine to engaged within a couple of days. I have asked him why he hasnt dont it and he said its becuase he wants it to be a suprise to everyone when we get married. None of his friends know we're engaged either which i find really odd.
To cut a very long story short he has started acting really strange since Saturday night. He went to see some friends and ever since he has been really odd. Little things like he took both of his business phones with him when he went when normally he would leave one with me incase anyone called or text wanting some work doing.
When he came back on saturday night he said he didnt know why he took both phones with him and only realised when he tried to call me and the phone went off in his pocket. Something didnt seem right so when i called a client the next day i looked at his call logs and there where no dialled calls to his secondary number and no missed calls on the other phone. I know its a little thing but why lie?
I also noticed that an old clients number was open on the secondary phone (like when you open your contacts to view there number) but he doesnt do work for her anymore as she really likes him and i said it made me uncomfortable, he agreed to has stopped working for her.
He has 2 facebook profiles, one personal and one business. He only uses his work one really and never normally goes on his personal one but all of sudden he was on there today. A few days ago he said he was going to delete his personal account and now he is on it, i find it really odd. On his personal account there are a few people that really like him and have in the past messaged him when we where together basically offering themselves on a plate. I dont think its appropriate for them to be on there still and i know for a fact if it was the other way around and it was happening to me he would go crazy and tell me to delete them but he just leaves these people on there. It just feels like double standards.
I cant help but think he is hiding something, he isnt acting like himself at all, seems really on edge, wont let go of his phones even though normally i always have them as i do all the admin stuff for his business and everytime i bring something up that has bothered me (like he has aked me to) he says that i am making him feel like everything is all his fault. I just feel like he is being over defensive.
Can someone please tell me if they think something is odd with him or if i am inface just going crazy
thanks for reading my made crazy rant xx