sv1711
Well-Known Member
So we had a works party last night for the staff of all the local shops. I work in a hairdressers it is just me and the male hairdresser. We have always got on ok he can be childish like taking my phone when I'm not there and putting silly fb status.
Recently I have become good friends with a male who is older but we really get on so are just seeing what happens. I've told a few close close friends about this and everyone has been supportive and happy for me but I haven't told my work college.
Anyway we had a Xmas party last night and while I was looking after another party goer who had drunk to much and was being sick he got hold of my phone.
To cut a long story short he started messaging this guy pretending to be me asking if he would pick me up and I could go back with him etc to find out if we were more than friends he then put some silly fb status up on my account.
I didn't realise until today he had done all this and only after the man I'm seeing mentioned it
I just feel so upset that he thinks it's funny to do something like that to me, if he had asked I would of told him what was happening he didn't need to sit there with his gf and friend sending messages pretending to be me to find out what was happening.
I just feel violated that he went into my private messages I know he will now tell everyone as we live in a smallish town so everyone will know and have an opinion as the male is a lot older than me
What would u do how would u approach him to say how upset I am he did this to
Sorry for the long post
Recently I have become good friends with a male who is older but we really get on so are just seeing what happens. I've told a few close close friends about this and everyone has been supportive and happy for me but I haven't told my work college.
Anyway we had a Xmas party last night and while I was looking after another party goer who had drunk to much and was being sick he got hold of my phone.
To cut a long story short he started messaging this guy pretending to be me asking if he would pick me up and I could go back with him etc to find out if we were more than friends he then put some silly fb status up on my account.
I didn't realise until today he had done all this and only after the man I'm seeing mentioned it
I just feel so upset that he thinks it's funny to do something like that to me, if he had asked I would of told him what was happening he didn't need to sit there with his gf and friend sending messages pretending to be me to find out what was happening.
I just feel violated that he went into my private messages I know he will now tell everyone as we live in a smallish town so everyone will know and have an opinion as the male is a lot older than me
What would u do how would u approach him to say how upset I am he did this to
Sorry for the long post