LindaH73
Well-Known Member
When i first met my hubby he was trying to get access to see his little girl. He did get access but his ex-girlfriend and her family made things extremelly difficult for him and after a few visits with her (many years ago) he now no longer sees her, funnily enough this upsets me more than him. We have two beautiful children together and some where out there, there is a young woman (now 16) who may or may not be interested in her Dad. We knew that his ex was involved in drugs and there was domestic violence going on in the house and i really wanted to intervene and get her to live with us but my hubby had been told she wasn't his and he was never certain so in the end we left the whole situation alone.
I regret this situation and wish there was something more we could have done but at the end of the day she wasn't my child so i could not intervene but i will always wonder about her and hope that maybe she will find us one day the problem being we now live 300 miles away.
I can't understand why you would be jealous of his children, at the time when i met my hubby i was only 19 and i welcomed his daughter with open arms but then i have always loved children. You sound very young to me, have you never wanted children yourself? I wouldn't be moving in with him until you have gotten to know the children as if you cannot handle the relationship between them and him then you shouldn't be with him as you should never make him chose between you and his children that his far to selfish.
I hope that you can get over these feelings as children can bring so much pleasure to your life.
I regret this situation and wish there was something more we could have done but at the end of the day she wasn't my child so i could not intervene but i will always wonder about her and hope that maybe she will find us one day the problem being we now live 300 miles away.
I can't understand why you would be jealous of his children, at the time when i met my hubby i was only 19 and i welcomed his daughter with open arms but then i have always loved children. You sound very young to me, have you never wanted children yourself? I wouldn't be moving in with him until you have gotten to know the children as if you cannot handle the relationship between them and him then you shouldn't be with him as you should never make him chose between you and his children that his far to selfish.
I hope that you can get over these feelings as children can bring so much pleasure to your life.