scrumpyjo44
Well-Known Member
I decided to go back to my maiden name as soon as we separated - I didn't want to have the same name anymore as his!!! I was also buying a house and wanted it all to go through in my maiden name.
I didn't have the issue of my son having a different name as he was from a previous relationship anyway or I may have kept my married name so that I had the same surname - makes it easier for school etc - gets confusing when they phone you at work asking for Mrs X even though you have told them you are Mrs Y.
The thing that annoyed me the most was that I had to pay to change my name back to my maiden name by deed poll - cost me £100 - that I just don't understand - why should you have to pay go back to your own name - just doesn't make sense!! It may be that its different in Guernsey or maybe because we weren't divorced yet only legally seperated but I still totally disagree to having to do it via deed poll.
I didn't have the issue of my son having a different name as he was from a previous relationship anyway or I may have kept my married name so that I had the same surname - makes it easier for school etc - gets confusing when they phone you at work asking for Mrs X even though you have told them you are Mrs Y.
The thing that annoyed me the most was that I had to pay to change my name back to my maiden name by deed poll - cost me £100 - that I just don't understand - why should you have to pay go back to your own name - just doesn't make sense!! It may be that its different in Guernsey or maybe because we weren't divorced yet only legally seperated but I still totally disagree to having to do it via deed poll.