Elaine Armani
Well-Known Member
The more you act like you care the more he will want you to chase him.
Leave him alone. Whether it be a day, a week, a month. You will see what you want to know eventually.
He'll realise that you're not too bothered about him and he will talk.
Worst case scenario, leave before you are left.
He sounds immature to be completely honest, guys at 21 want to party and sleep around don't pressure him into anything he might do what other guys his age do for a week and then he might even run back to you.
I know because I'm young myself and I never 'date' anyone the same age as me because I don't want to be a babysitter.
I'm sorry that he's putting you through this, it's always harder said than done but don't worry too much about it, people come and go especially at our age, if you care too much they leave you hanging without a care in the world.
Hang in there, be strong, don't lower yourself because there's always plenty of fish in the sea
Leave him alone. Whether it be a day, a week, a month. You will see what you want to know eventually.
He'll realise that you're not too bothered about him and he will talk.
Worst case scenario, leave before you are left.
He sounds immature to be completely honest, guys at 21 want to party and sleep around don't pressure him into anything he might do what other guys his age do for a week and then he might even run back to you.
I know because I'm young myself and I never 'date' anyone the same age as me because I don't want to be a babysitter.
I'm sorry that he's putting you through this, it's always harder said than done but don't worry too much about it, people come and go especially at our age, if you care too much they leave you hanging without a care in the world.
Hang in there, be strong, don't lower yourself because there's always plenty of fish in the sea