Susie H
Well-Known Member
When I lost my dad in 1990 I was devistated, I still think of him every day and Christmas time when we were always together I still have a sad time. I quiet often talk to him and I just know that he hears me, sometimes I even smell his aftershave. It is hard to loose anyone you are close to. Just don't make any hasty desisions. Because when the first shock is over you don't want to be adding guilt and regret to the mix.
It took me 3 years to be able to look at a photo of dad and when my lost uncle found me and turned out to be my dads double it all came crashing back, but now I can look back on all our special moments that belonged to no one else but us and mostly smile, but yes when things are rough I still want my dad. Thank god for my children, because he's in them, my youngest son has his birthmark and his smile, Kayleigh raises her eye brow in exactly the same way my brother has his walk, you watch your baby, when she /he arrives and I garanttee you'll see your auntie, same for you marie, you look at your family and you'll find your dad. Pagans belive they haven't left us just that they are out of sight. Don't be afraid to cry hun, its natures way of letting it all out.
It took me 3 years to be able to look at a photo of dad and when my lost uncle found me and turned out to be my dads double it all came crashing back, but now I can look back on all our special moments that belonged to no one else but us and mostly smile, but yes when things are rough I still want my dad. Thank god for my children, because he's in them, my youngest son has his birthmark and his smile, Kayleigh raises her eye brow in exactly the same way my brother has his walk, you watch your baby, when she /he arrives and I garanttee you'll see your auntie, same for you marie, you look at your family and you'll find your dad. Pagans belive they haven't left us just that they are out of sight. Don't be afraid to cry hun, its natures way of letting it all out.