wyliekit88
Well-Known Member
I don't often use this site to moan but I am having a bloody awful time at the moment, my hubby is at work and I need someone to chat to.
I am having the time from hell at the moment. Being 32 weeks pregnant and just about to start maternity leave I should be one of the happiest girls around. This week things have gone to pot. On Wednesday my auntie died which has come as a complete shock to all of us and we are all devastated. She isn't that old and although has a few medical problems had nothing serious. She went to bed a week past Tuesday with a really horrible flu virus and had been there for the whole week. She was really out of sorts and the doctor same to see her on Monday. On Wednesday I got a phone call at work to say she was poorly then my husband came to collect me and told me she had died (the family didn't want to tell me over the phone).
Post mortem was done yesterday and she apparently had a pulmonary embolism which had travelled to her lung possibly due to her being ill in bed for a week and not getting any exercise. I feel so sad as I know these things can be treated if caught and none of us had a clue it was there.
She was so looking forward to the baby coming, she had bought us a beautiful crib and knitted loads of things for it. I am so sad that she is not going to be here to see the baby. As I am 39 and had given up hope of having a baby she was so pleased when we told her our good news.
Also, I have a small salon where another girl does the beauty treatments and I do the nails and today is her last day. She is off to work in a new salon closer to where she lives and although I am really happy for her I feel very sad to lose her. She is very good at what she does and the clients loved her.
I am not sure if I want to keep the salon going. I feel like closing the shop down.
I am totally going to miss my auntie. I was very close to her and as she had two sons she thought of me as her daughter. When I had a problem that was where I went. She was going to teach me how to make soup when I finished for maternity leave cos I am not very good around the house. I am so used to just popping in for a natter and a cuppa. My uncle died five years ago and she really missed him loads so I tell myself at least she is happy where she is now but I am selfish and want her here with me. She as such a lovely lady who was very well thought of.
Sorry to burden you all with this but I am sitting here blubbing my eyes out and needed to let it out. I'm not looking for sympathy just needed to let it out.
I am having the time from hell at the moment. Being 32 weeks pregnant and just about to start maternity leave I should be one of the happiest girls around. This week things have gone to pot. On Wednesday my auntie died which has come as a complete shock to all of us and we are all devastated. She isn't that old and although has a few medical problems had nothing serious. She went to bed a week past Tuesday with a really horrible flu virus and had been there for the whole week. She was really out of sorts and the doctor same to see her on Monday. On Wednesday I got a phone call at work to say she was poorly then my husband came to collect me and told me she had died (the family didn't want to tell me over the phone).
Post mortem was done yesterday and she apparently had a pulmonary embolism which had travelled to her lung possibly due to her being ill in bed for a week and not getting any exercise. I feel so sad as I know these things can be treated if caught and none of us had a clue it was there.
She was so looking forward to the baby coming, she had bought us a beautiful crib and knitted loads of things for it. I am so sad that she is not going to be here to see the baby. As I am 39 and had given up hope of having a baby she was so pleased when we told her our good news.
Also, I have a small salon where another girl does the beauty treatments and I do the nails and today is her last day. She is off to work in a new salon closer to where she lives and although I am really happy for her I feel very sad to lose her. She is very good at what she does and the clients loved her.
I am not sure if I want to keep the salon going. I feel like closing the shop down.
I am totally going to miss my auntie. I was very close to her and as she had two sons she thought of me as her daughter. When I had a problem that was where I went. She was going to teach me how to make soup when I finished for maternity leave cos I am not very good around the house. I am so used to just popping in for a natter and a cuppa. My uncle died five years ago and she really missed him loads so I tell myself at least she is happy where she is now but I am selfish and want her here with me. She as such a lovely lady who was very well thought of.
Sorry to burden you all with this but I am sitting here blubbing my eyes out and needed to let it out. I'm not looking for sympathy just needed to let it out.