Becca Wright
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hi everyone! i really need help...... On friday i had a man in for a massage, working in a hotel and gym i am used to doing alot of male massage but i had a very unpleasent experience with this particular man.
I introduced myself and told him how i wanted him to get ready, he asked me if it was ok not to wear any underwear as the area that he needed massage was his thighs and glutes. This didnt ring any alarm bells because for someone that plays football this is quite normal. He was really friendly and talked all the way through the massage but he did make me feel a little uncomfortable when he kept moving the towel very close to his manly area. he also kept moving his leg right out and asking me to massage right between his legs. He told me that he had alot of sports massage and because i am not trained in it i assumed that this is something that they are quite used to so i tried to be propfessional and get on with it. He then started to touch my legs when i was doing the back but kept making out it was an accident. This was making me feel a bit scared. Unfortunatly because his PA had also booked my 4oclock space for him, i had to deal with him coming back and this time he got an erection and was asking me if im interested in bondage. By the end of the second massage i was frightened that he wouldnt let me out or something was going to happen but he was still being very friendly so i didnt know if i was the one reading to much into this. He asked if he could see me again the following day but i said i was fully booked.
I let the hotel that i rent a room from know and they have been so supportive but they also want to write to him and let him know that he is not welcome back to the hotel. what worries me is that my mobile is my work number which this guy has and i am worried that a letter will cause more problems.
Am i over reacting or should something be done? This has really knocked confidence and i am ashamed that i didnt stick up for myself and told him that i wasnt comfortable because maybe he would have been embarassed that he made me feel like that and didnt mean it!! i feel like my head is messed up! whats the right thing to do?
Sorry this is so long but any advice to make me feel better would be great x x x x
I introduced myself and told him how i wanted him to get ready, he asked me if it was ok not to wear any underwear as the area that he needed massage was his thighs and glutes. This didnt ring any alarm bells because for someone that plays football this is quite normal. He was really friendly and talked all the way through the massage but he did make me feel a little uncomfortable when he kept moving the towel very close to his manly area. he also kept moving his leg right out and asking me to massage right between his legs. He told me that he had alot of sports massage and because i am not trained in it i assumed that this is something that they are quite used to so i tried to be propfessional and get on with it. He then started to touch my legs when i was doing the back but kept making out it was an accident. This was making me feel a bit scared. Unfortunatly because his PA had also booked my 4oclock space for him, i had to deal with him coming back and this time he got an erection and was asking me if im interested in bondage. By the end of the second massage i was frightened that he wouldnt let me out or something was going to happen but he was still being very friendly so i didnt know if i was the one reading to much into this. He asked if he could see me again the following day but i said i was fully booked.
I let the hotel that i rent a room from know and they have been so supportive but they also want to write to him and let him know that he is not welcome back to the hotel. what worries me is that my mobile is my work number which this guy has and i am worried that a letter will cause more problems.
Am i over reacting or should something be done? This has really knocked confidence and i am ashamed that i didnt stick up for myself and told him that i wasnt comfortable because maybe he would have been embarassed that he made me feel like that and didnt mean it!! i feel like my head is messed up! whats the right thing to do?
Sorry this is so long but any advice to make me feel better would be great x x x x