littlemissm
Well-Known Member
I have 5 children at home ranging from 19 down to 5. My son being the oldest is causing a lot of arguments & unhappiness in the home. He is lazy & does nothing but lay in bed all day. He got kicked out of college in April & has done nothing since. I have made him join agencies looking for work but nothing has came up. A month ago he started getting JSA & both times he has had to sign on he has been late. On Tuesday he was supposed to be there at 10:40. I did tell him to get up when I left the house at 9 but I left my phone at home so couldn't ring him to check he got up. Well at 12 my husband rang where I was & said he was still in bed when I got back at 1pm he was still there. I went through the roof with him telling me to get out & basically to go away & stop moaning. He left the house to sign on at 3pm. It has caused arguments as he is so rude & disrespectful & just thinks that we are all getting on at him I am at my wits end. I have told him to leave or booed by my rules. He does more or less what he wants so doesn't have a hard life. All I want is respect & for him to get his arse out of bed each day & do something with himself even if he was to help around the house.