What Attracts You To Someone?

[Blue Rose]

Following on from the 'who would you snog?' thread, back in the real world, what is it about someone that would want you to lock lips with them?

I have a real thing for dimples & have gone weak at the knees many a time over a nice dimpled smile.

So over to you guys.....

 

[kennedia]

I don't tend to go for looks. I like someone with a great mind, someone successful (that doesn't mean rich necessarily though) or someone with a really interesting tale to tell.

 

[Violet Star]

Im a sucker for charm! If someone has charm then they near enough always win me over lol I like men with confidence but not too much.

Looks wise Im an eyes girl i love dreamy eyes like George clooney
x

 

[chocolatepickle]

a sense of humour for me, i find men that can make me laugh so attractive. Team that with a cheeky grin and i'm sold!
Looks wise, I do like well built men too, by this i just mean not scrawny and skinny- a bit of meat on their bones and taller then me.
I NEVER go for looks over personality though, i could be with the most gorgeous man but what comes out of his mouth is a load of rubbish then he's gone. The best looking men i've been with however have all been arrogant ladies men though so i steer clear of anyone who appears to love themselves the most.

 

[Florriedee]

I go for blue eyes and a good smile. They have to have good teeth aswell and I really like a man wearing a ring on his middle finger - I have no idea why and it has to be silver too - I am a freak I'm afraid! Having said that it doesn't matter how sexy they are if they can't string a sentance together then they are out. And they have to have perfect syntax, grammer and spelling if they are writing or emailing. :lol:

I am extremely hard to please I have just realised, perhaps that is why I am single. I think I read too many romance novels and now I won't settle for anyone less than either Darcy, Bingly or Rochester! Lol! So know you know! Lx

 

[Blue Rose]

I go for blue eyes and a good smile. Having said that it doesn't matter how sexy they are if they can't string a sentance together then they are out. And they have to have perfect syntax, grammer and spelling if they are writing or emailing. :lol:

I know what you mean about that. Lol, in my younger days I can remember (on more than 1 occasion) making eyes at some fella, then him coming over for 'the chat up' & his accent & grammar being so awful that it's put me right off them.

 

[angelina221]

Eyes and teeth!
Have been out with a couple of men with big noses. Think i was so busy looking at their eyes and teeth that i forgot to check out the rest of their face!
Also someone who can make me laugh and is intelligent!
My husband fits all the criteria-lucky me

 

[Violet Star]

I go for blue eyes and a good smile. They have to have good teeth aswell and I really like a man wearing a ring on his middle finger - I have no idea why and it has to be silver too - I am a freak I'm afraid! Having said that it doesn't matter how sexy they are if they can't string a sentance together then they are out. And they have to have perfect syntax, grammer and spelling if they are writing or emailing. :lol:

This description fits my partner in one :lol: Freaky!

 

[Nail Love]

What a great thread!!! might mix all the ideas and write a book... what women want lol!!!!!
Got to be the teeth, nice, CLEAN, straight, whiter than white teeth (think Cesar Milan here!) and blue eyes (think piercing blue!! like the Ocean) clean hard working hamds (man hands!!) short nails is a must!!!!:wink2:
Tall (er than me at least) and they have to be bigger built than me (like men used to be in the old movies!!) money and fast car would be nice however I can make my own money and dont think he'd be too pleased with my dogs riding in their "pride and joy" oh yeh, and they have to love and respect animals!!!!! and hopefully NOT want to move in with me!!! I got rid of the last one after 6 very long years (he didnt have any of the above attributes!!) and I have decided that (after having my boyfriend (who fits all these attributes) here for a weekend) I love MY OWN SPACE!!! things are left clean and tidy, no toast crumbs on the side and my bath is clean whenever I fancy a soak!!! My toilet is fresh for a queen all day and night and I have my whole double bed to myself!!! and get too watch what I want too.
He would have to love the free things in life like walks on the beach (with my dogs of course), enjoy lazy sundays on the sofa and also help with the dishes........
I know, I want Mr.Right, dont we all?? But Im happy with my Mr.Messy at the mo, but if Lenny Kravitz walks past my house, I know who Im following!! ))

 

[Annie23]

For me its the Je Ne Sai Quoi that certain presence that a person has that you cannot put your finger on that makes me attracted to a man. They don't have to be good looking, just a few things have to be checked for me:

must be tall, nice teeth, heavier set built (I'm not even bothered if they have excess weight), easy going with a good sense of humour!

thinking about it, me thinks I ask for a lot

anne xx

 

[deanosnana]

For me, it's a sense of humor. I find that very sexy!

 

[champagne]

Rich, Tall, Good looking, Great shoulders, Tanned....that will do me lmaoooooo

O/H = Tall, Good looking, Good shoulders, Hillarious, Spoils me to death....Only the rich bit to go so Im not doing bad ...... I love him to bits....wish Id have met him years ago xx

 

[mercedes69]

What attracts me to someone and what I got are two different things altogether :irked:

I like a sense of humour first and foremost...someone who makes me belly laugh.....
Not too tall or too skinny...

and a fat bank account would be nice....

I would also be attracted to someone who only wanted their wicked way when I deemed it a suitable time....and someone who never passed wind in the morning while I was sleeping.

 

[Marley's Ghost]

probably shouldn't ask a bloke. . .

we're all shallow

 

[angelina221]

probably shouldn't ask a bloke. . .

we're all shallow

Oh come on David!
We haven't had any men reply yet.
Spill the beans

 

[Marley's Ghost]

oh ok then. . .

personality is a plus. . .

but looks, fun-loving, rich and frisky will win every time

 

[angelina221]

Yep, typical male reaction-lol

 

[collin]

we're all shallow

your probably right there David :hug:
Long legs,nice butt and ****ies and were sold :lol::lol:

Seriously though for me..well whilst good looks can be a bonus its not the be all and end all...... attraction to someone..well it just happens..you get attracted to someone because...well .....the chemistry just fits somehow and the sparks fly and can be with the most unlikeliest of persons and even someone your not looking for or would want/expect a relationship with :hug:

 

[weezie]

It's all about chemistry, then biology! :lol:

 

[tonilee]

Confidence is the sexiest thing ever for me (not to be confused with arrogance tho as thats really not sexy!)

I also have a strange thing for ladies with crooked/imperfect teeth (not brown,rotted and missing I mean a bit of a gap like Madonna and suchlike)

Sexy smile wins me over everytime.......oh.....and of course she would have to have a great rack!!:lol:

My wife ticks all the boxes (and more), hence asking her to marry me!!!