~shelley~
Well-Known Member
Aw hun, hope you sort things out - you know you can talk to me anytime or if you ever feel like a night out of the house you can always come to mine for a chat xxxxxxxx
harvey said:Do you know what? You guys are all wonderful and I love you all to bits x x
We went for a meal last night and to talk things through. I had asked him to think of a few of his favourite memories of our relationship and to tell me them when we were having our meal - I wanted us to remember better times and also to see wether they were all to do with sex lol!
Anyway I was pleasantly surprised that they werent, he chose our wedding day, a couple of nights out on various holidays, a few daytrips we took in our early days, our first date, and a few of my finest blonde moments lol.
He also said he wanted us to name our 5 favourite things about each other and surprised me there too, he chose
1 - beautiful face
2 - boobs and bum (that one wasnt surprising lol)
3 - my sense of humour and the ability to laugh at myself
4 - my bubbly personality
5 - the fact that he is constantly learning things from me
Anyway all this was helping my self esteem no end and I plucked up the courage to tell him my feelings about this whole Anne-Marie thing. (thats the girl from work).
He said the reason he told me she called was that he had felt slightly uncomfortable with her calling him at home about her marriage problems himself, and he wanted to tell me it was her in case I was suspicious, as he thought he would be if it were the other way round. He said I should have no fear of him and her running off into the sunset together as he reckons he has never thought of her in that way. He also said he had never ever discussed our relationship with her, or anyone else except me. He said he has spoke to her at work about her husband as she has come in upset a few times and being her manager felt he should offer her the opportunity to get things off her chest, but he personally beleives there is only one person anyone needs to talk to to resolve issues like this, and that is their partner.
I said I would make more of an effort in the sack (and last night the efforts were pretty damn good lol) but he needs to understand my feelings and consider that a cuddle might just be a cuddle and nothing more. We are still working through our problems but have both agreed we need to go out more and spend time on our own so we can relax properly and talk if needs be, as living with my parents is not helping, not enough space to be ourselves, which we are not really used to. I left home at 20 and he left home at 18 (obviously this was not to be together as we hadnt met).
Anyway just thought yout might like an update guys. Thank you all, sincerely. Will let you know how the weekend has progressed at some point x x x x x x x x x x
harvey said:Do you know what? You guys are all wonderful and I love you all to bits x x
We went for a meal last night and to talk things through. I had asked him to think of a few of his favourite memories of our relationship and to tell me them when we were having our meal - I wanted us to remember better times and also to see wether they were all to do with sex lol!
Anyway I was pleasantly surprised that they werent, he chose our wedding day, a couple of nights out on various holidays, a few daytrips we took in our early days, our first date, and a few of my finest blonde moments lol.
He also said he wanted us to name our 5 favourite things about each other and surprised me there too, he chose
1 - beautiful face
2 - boobs and bum (that one wasnt surprising lol)
3 - my sense of humour and the ability to laugh at myself
4 - my bubbly personality
5 - the fact that he is constantly learning things from me
Anyway all this was helping my self esteem no end and I plucked up the courage to tell him my feelings about this whole Anne-Marie thing. (thats the girl from work).
He said the reason he told me she called was that he had felt slightly uncomfortable with her calling him at home about her marriage problems himself, and he wanted to tell me it was her in case I was suspicious, as he thought he would be if it were the other way round. He said I should have no fear of him and her running off into the sunset together as he reckons he has never thought of her in that way. He also said he had never ever discussed our relationship with her, or anyone else except me. He said he has spoke to her at work about her husband as she has come in upset a few times and being her manager felt he should offer her the opportunity to get things off her chest, but he personally beleives there is only one person anyone needs to talk to to resolve issues like this, and that is their partner.
I said I would make more of an effort in the sack (and last night the efforts were pretty damn good lol) but he needs to understand my feelings and consider that a cuddle might just be a cuddle and nothing more. We are still working through our problems but have both agreed we need to go out more and spend time on our own so we can relax properly and talk if needs be, as living with my parents is not helping, not enough space to be ourselves, which we are not really used to. I left home at 20 and he left home at 18 (obviously this was not to be together as we hadnt met).
Anyway just thought yout might like an update guys. Thank you all, sincerely. Will let you know how the weekend has progressed at some point x x x x x x x x x x
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