jacquelineanna
Well-Known Member
Many years ago I was bullied at work because I asked difficult questions, looked a bit different to most of my cohorts, and almost ended up in the psychiatric hospital "Park Prewitt" in Basingstoke.
Everyone knew it was going on but nobody, it seemed, had the guts to stand up to the institutional bullying that was going on. It got so bad with me that even Radio 4 made a programme about it, and I appeared in a book - link attached.
Bullying At Work: How to Confront and Overcome It: Amazon.co.uk: Andrea Adams: Books
That said, there is a caveat on internet fora.
If one joins a forum and has posted nary a thing, it is not a good idea to wade in with criticisms and accusations, and strident opinion. Far better to be a lurker for a while and test the waters so to speak. To get an idea of the atmosphere almost.
For instance, on one (now thankfully deleted) thread, I was attacked for having an opinion, and asking what could be described as "awkward" questions. Not only on the public forum, but via private message, and all by someone who actually was lying about who and what they were! They weren't even a qualified therapist, but the best friend of the company owner!
I try to think of myself as being a straight down the line kinda person; comfortable in my own skin, and this vile individual (remember, they're not a therapist) reduced me to tears and gin.
Make no mistake though, I will stand up for professionalism, expertise, honesty and integrity, and if I feel that anyone, newby or other, is belittling that my dander will be well and truly up!
I didn't see this thread Lynne but I do hope you had geek support whilst it was going on.
I also hope this individual was banned.
Me and my dander will stand by the side of you and your dander should it be required :hug: